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water-weaving · 6 months ago

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something liberating about realizing that otherwise fully gender-conforming, fully cisgender-and-heterosexual men are considered "not real men" and gnc for *checks notes* being a human person? with a personality? feelings and thoughts even. like. okay then if NOBODY gets to be a real man i guess EVERYONE gets to be one. if they want to. no need to worry about that. the game was rigged since the start anyway 👍

#it's kinda funny to me like. noooooo you're not *not* a real man because you're a dirty transsexual! silly!#you're NOT a real man! but for DIFFERENT reasons. like playing an instrument and enjoying colors and having friends.#i mean like obviously i KNEW that intellectually . since forever. but it's another thing to see it happen irl #and also. i do feel like our definitions of gender have gotten SO much stricter and reactionary lately #thinking about one of these tiktokers walking up to my dad (who wears bluejeans and has a moustache and likes music) like #''i LOVEEEEEEEE that you're like a little gay teehee. you're like a little faggot. and you're 5'5 too! bit sus hmmm?????''#my abusive parents' dysfunctional marriage: the original girlboss x little fruity boy hashtag relationship goals?

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