#thingsimafraidtoask

[razliel]

#thingsimafraidtoaskmytransfriends

I knew you before you changed, for years and years. It doesn't matter that I know now that you're a boy not a girl... In every memory you're in, from before you told me that you were a boy, I remember a girl. Does that offend you, that I can't change what was? Or at least what was to me... People can only view the world in a bias of their own perceptions, and mine at the time told me you were a girl. So, I'm sorry if that offends you, and I don't know how to ask if it does, or if I even should. But in my memories is a distinctive line. You've always been you...but there was a girl you and a boy you in my memories. Does it offend you or upset you that when I talk about the past I often use what's now the wrong pronoun, even though since I was told I've been so careful to use the one you want? I'm sorry...but I can't change what I remember, even if what I remember was only my perception and not the truth as you know it