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deadtower · 7 years ago

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why are some people so determined to be miserable. like i sent six or seven of my coworkers whose phone numbers i have the schedule for next week because it came out early (it’s usually not out til sunday but it came out tonight) so they can make plans for next week re: shift trading and so on and so forth

one of the coworkers i sent it to apparently got fired tonight and i had no idea

she texts me back “wow - ur real subtle! to think that i liked u and had such nice things to say about u. then out of the blue (when u have NEVER texted me before) u send me a pic of a schedule at 4am - that i didnt ask for btw - and then say ‘ur not on it’? hmmm ... why would u be so mean? lmao. have u ever sent me the schedule before? um - no. so why would you pick 4am to send me the schedule and say ‘wait ur not on it’? again - thx for being so mean! ive never done anything so mean 2 u - ive always had ur back when people talked! u wouldnt know that tho - but thats cool. u of all people i would never expect 2 kick sumone when theyre down”

like i guarantee you no one’s ‘talked’ about me bc like everyone at this job likes me bc i actually do my job and get along with people, and everyone hates this coworker bc shes miserable, plus i HAVE texted her before (to trade/pick up shifts) so that’s debunked and as i said before i legit just texted her the sched bc IT CAME OUT EARLY. it’s never come out this early before and i was trying to be nice

and i said “no? what happened” when she asked if i knew what had happened to her tonight and thats when i said “o shit youre not on it” bc i took a second look at the schedule (and like she KNOWS she’s not on it so idk why she’s harping on about THAT of all things as if she was the one who didn’t know she wasn’t on it)

like legit some people are determined to be miserable, i already said several times it was a fucking accident and apologized and explained the situation. jesus. shut up and let it go

#sorry for the 4am posting but anyway #im fucking pissed #like believe it or not not everyone is out to get you lmfao #ive only been fucking working here for 2 months and only had ur number for 1 month of course ive barely texted you #i was trying to be fucking nice good fucking l-rd #'u wouldnt know that tho' yeah bc it's never HAPPENED it's only now that youre saying smth bc u wanna paint urself as like #the person who was my secret defender or whatever #like what would they even gossip about about me lmao #me being trans? me being a jew? i barely talk about either except to answer questions so uhhh #theyre parts of my identity so if people wanna kvetch about them in private? not my problem and not my concern #they can be transphobic and antisemitic on their own time idc #and if that's what they were kvetching about then that's performativeness at its finest like #'i had ur back and look what u do to me'#like if thats what they were being awful about and this coworker defended me from that in private (which i doubt bc #i doubt anyone was talking about me ANYWAY) but is gonna be all LOOK HOW I DEFENDED U AND WHAT U DID TO ME #then like she doesnt actually care lmao #and besides wouldnt she be vocal about defending me if she was actually proud of it lol #ANYWAYS ... whatever literally every coworker of mine hates her #there was even a running joke a few days ago where everyone would be in a good mood and like #be like 'wow i wonder why we're all in such a good mood' and see who (who wasnt in on the joke) would say #''is it because [miserable aforementioned coworker] isn't here''#LIKE THAT'S HOW MISERABLE SHE IS ... F #anywayz #that's the 4am kvetch for tonight #i do feel bad about the 4am thing i didnt even realize it was 3.30 or w/e when i sent her the schedule #thats just bc like im up til 6am on my days off and i forget not everyone is #anyway my coworkers and manager will be so pissed when i tell em about all this lol #pissed at her not pissed at me (obv)

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