#they’ll defend the relationship saying theyre in love and hes different blah blah blah because they can’t see it

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I have a friend who works in my local, and I thought he could do no wrong- the loveliest guy you'll ever meet. I recently found out he's slept with and is seeing a waitress that works there. Issue being she's 17 and he's 27. I wanted to cry when I found out, I felt sick. I've decided I don't want to see him anymore, but everyone else that work there and a few of my friends- my partner being one, know about it and either don't care, find it amusing, or don't agree with it but are still happy to be around them. I just don't know what to do man. It's such a horrible situation because I'm about to lose so many people in my life, but I refuse to associate with people like that. I'm struggling with letting them go. I mean, how

if he’s 27 and he’s fucked a 17 year old child he should literally be in jail that’s nasty. i would never wanna associate w a grown ass man pushing 30 who is sexually attracted to/sexually or romantically involved w teenagers idc you’re in the right in this situation. honestly the fact that other coworkers, some of your friends, and especially your partner know ab it and are okay w it is beyond sick and it’s a huuuuge red flag. theyre literally excusing/allowing it by continuing to be friends w him. he’s literally grown she’s in hs that’s so disgusting he should not be around young girls. i think you should go w your gut. your feelings are valid, he’s a p*dophile for being into high schoolers, your friends/coworkers/partner are mad weird for enabling it. super tough situation but honestly i wouldn’t wanna be friends w people who are okay w or encouraging grown ass men to sleep w teenagers. idc how nice the man is, hes a sexual predator.