#they dont feel the need to unlearn socialisation and shit
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I am not gonna take any post that says osa woman (about het love) have it as hard as lesbians in regards of sexuality and love seriously. They don't. I also have no obligation to treat my oppressors with respect or compassion or whatever else bs osa women love to preach but never practice.
#theyre only more pathetic bcos they dont put in any effort into things#they dont feel the need to unlearn socialisation and shit#anyway i think ssa women who seek out romance obsessively and are terrified of being alone in are unhealthy too i just have compassion for#them unlike with osa women#osa women dump their friends for men and then we have to feel sorry for them when we're the one who get treated like shit?#its always about THEIR mental health not ours#and be for fucking real some of us were genuinely planning on living together with friends seriously as kids and never stopped prioritising#that like even when i was madly in love i still wanted that and not just her#just because yall don't care aboutyour friends doesnt mean you should project your shit personality on the rest of us
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I did say AFAB and AMAB, because that's what I meant. I could say "people raised as boys" (and I did) and i would get called a TERF all the same. But I don't understand how this post is aggression!! how is it aggressive to notice that a lot of the transfems ive met are literally sexist! and dont want to unlearn that! and dont examine their personal biases and call me a terf when called out on it!! gender roles are real and enforced in children!! why is this damaging to point out?? why do i and everybody else have to keep saying "yes it's EVERYONE'S responsibility.." (like in my reblog) just to make people feel better? why do i have to indict myself to make my criticisms valid? i know im not perfect, i know im angry, i know i have biases but that doesn't make my criticism here any less valid. For reference I am a transmasc, that's why im so mad about sexism.
I addressed this in better language in my 1st reblog, but this is exactly the shit im angry about and why i dont care if i hurt y'alls fucking feelings anymore. there's no way to say this without making people upset and people will continue to entirely discard a very valid point because "male socialisation is a myth" and "OP sounds like a TERF." I made a post about transfems specifically because I see it. A Lot.
image of reblog for posterity's sake. .
and like, "this isnt for people who are going to take it wrong" may seem like a cop-out, but im not trying to interact with TERFs on this post. I am speaking to and for and from the trans community. if I do notice TERFs coopting this post I will delete their reblogs, but this isn't for them, they don't have the framework to even begin to engage with this post in good faith. Again, if anyone does see this floating in TERF spaces lemme know.
also also please read the whole posts. idk how you missed that i said AMAB but you need to read the whole posts to get what im saying.
look im sorry but im sick to fucking death of people who were raised & socialised as boys and men never taking a fucking second to analyize the lens they view the world through like. half of the younger amabs, and yes i mean that, ive met never learned how to stop seeing afabs, and yes I mean that, as little girls who need to shut up. you just havent taken the time to unlearn that. it's fucking infuriating. im tired of not saying it. transitioning into womanhood doesn't baptise you of the patriarchy you've been taught to perpetuate your whole life, especially if you're white, or the behaviors you learned to do that. you have to actually look that in the eyes and deal with it and stop treating the LGBTQ+ community as a whole like it's our job to deal with the "complexities" of intersectionality while you just get to focus on yeah pretty much JUST white transmisogyny. Y'all are still fucking sexist deep down.
#at this point i dont care if the post is bad#if its bioessentialism to point out that sexism is baked into this country and how we raise our kids#fuck me i guess#sorry y'all didnt have to be the ones hear a teacher tell boys that they'll be expected to protect girls in school shootings#or go to girl scout camp and get told you're literally too weak to do they cool shit they do at boy scout camp#or deal with the difference in boys and girls sports all the same#especially chess#never had to hear the “let me get 3 boys to help carry these chairs” and have it hurt you#and dont get me wrong like. this is deplorable#how we treat our boys#it's super fucked up im not saying its good or that i wish i got to experience these except boy scout camp#but is it essentialist to know that this is a thing.#also also if you call me a terf you better be able to explain why#without trying to say gender roles dont exist and arent pushed on kids because that's where y'all are at right now#like right now all of this backpedaling im doing? to try to make people comfy? genuinely fucking triggering it's the same shit its always be#little girl shut up you dont know what youre talking about it's everybody dotchakno like#AFAB protector born into womanhood bullshit people are saying about me#literal fuckin#the shit im talking about
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