#these tags are just me doing dbt for several paragraphs’ worth of text
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my main goal is for everyone to like me is that wrong
#these tags are just me doing dbt for several paragraphs’ worth of text#so. proceed with caution ->#not really everyone. but as many people as possible#i finally feel like i’m starting to fit in with my partner’s friend group and i feel really good about it but now i’m second guessing that#like is this a normal level of ‘hooray new friends’ or is it like ‘ah yes i’ve been accepted. i’m getting a good grade in Personality’#which is great! considering the disorder#as i was typing that i thought about what my therapist would say. and she’d say that external validation is somethig everyone needs sometime#it just ideally shouldn’t be your only source of motivation#but it’s ok to want it and be happy to receive it#verdict: not unhealthy#and! it is also normal and healthy and good to be excited about new friends!#double and. i think a little preening and trying to people please isn’t necessarily a bad thing when you’re new to the group#make them glad you’ve joined yknow?#i’m ingratiating myself#plus i gotta make up for killing the vibe at game night by being to mtgpilled 💀#ok problem solved!#personal#dbt
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