#theres sth abt the way theyre so real as people?? like theyre so flawed and sometimes irrational like those are REAL PEOPLE
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Am I still the lucky one in your life? Always have been.
#creations#gifs#we best love#we best love: no 1 for you#we best love: fighting mr. 2nd#twdrama#lgbtq+#zhou shu yi#gao shi de#THE WAY THEY DEVASTATE ME#theres sth abt the way theyre so real as people?? like theyre so flawed and sometimes irrational like those are REAL PEOPLE#i kno a lot of ppl dont rly like it?? or at least they dont like s2 ??#i sort of get it but i also dont#like on one hand ye its angsty nd theyre not a squeaky clean lgbt couple who are beautiful role models for the community u kno but like#im not seeing how thats a bad thing at all??#i think we rly need to normalise these storylines involving flawed; interesting queer characters without thinking its somehow wrong#for gay ppl to not be god like perfect ppl like its been bothering me for a while but#not every piece of media depicting gay ppl doing sth 'wrong' is home of phobic or harmful its just a normal storyline that involves gay ppl#nyway thats enough out of ME i adore them#i also adore a good angsty/conflict resolution plotline when ik its going to get resolved so that may also be why#im enjoying both series the same amount rly#i want to add on to these tags rn bc i worry that my rambling comes off as maybe insensitive abt the issues that stem from#the two main issues w/ their dynamic at the start of s2 i.e. shu yi hitting shi de multiple times and also the dubcon sofa scene#like as i said their decisions r Incredibly questionable in these parts like im not saying either of these actions were correct nd#should absolutely NOT take place in an irl relationship and it shouldnt b excused as Fine bc theyre two men which i hav seen happen#but what i mean is the show didnt attempt to frame it as a positive or as romantic (at least imo??) and iirc sam lin was incredibly worried#abt the sofa scene in particular bc he was worried it would be taken as a 'bed scene' which to my understanding is like a scene marketed#toward a female audience ?? (i dont rly Frequent bl as a genre so u will hav to forgive if im wrong)#i feel like im making sense but in an incredibly clumsy way so i will be leaving this here gab get better at voicing ur thoughts challenge#basICALLy tldr: the two issues ive seen ppl commenting on the most r being done rightfully so nd should not be duplicated or condoned irl
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