#there's a ton of overlap regarding how we prioritize and negotiate relationships & reject social relationship norms

[crimeronan]

what do u mean u don’t fall in love what abt all ur partners??!!!

oh don't get me wrong, i LOVE a lot of people, i just don't fall IN love. i'm aroacespec to a significant degree. romantic dates are largely the same for me as just hanging out with people, i prefer not to have sex, et cetera. that's why i always ship polycules but i'm never fussed about how characters draw the lines regarding platonic versus romantic versus sexual relationships. it's really all the same to me. love and partnerships for me are like, i like and respect you So Fucking Much and i think that you are so cool and you make me so happy. i'd like us to remain in each other's lives in a committed way for a long time, whatever shape that takes. cool????

and it is indeed cool. peace sign emoji