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oversharer-that-overshares · 1 year ago

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There should be labels abt sexuality reagrdless of gender. Like. If you like women, you’re a lesbian, if you like men, you’re gay. Your own gender doesn’t matter, what you’re talking about is the gender you prefer for romantic/sexual reasons, unless u don’t like that at all

Also, labels about the /genitals/ you prefer ur partner to have, regardless of gender, bc some people (me, i’m people) might have a stronger preference for clit, and women are Not the only people who have a clit Nor do they all have one, and i don’t think it’s an asshole move to not like something.

What IS an asshole move is to disrespect and/or change the other person’s pronouns, or to play with them, y’know, like an asshole

#all this to say: i think it’s not transphobic to dislike dick. it’s transphobic to think that bc someone has a dick it makes them a man #i’ve been thinkg abt this a lot bc i like men and women but dicks make me uncomfortable #and genitals don’t mark a person’s gender ✌️#i just think it’d be easier to label sexualities based purely on ur preferences #unless u don’t label at all or already have found your label #idk #i’m just gonna be cyrcling on the same idea for a few hours #queer #sexuality #queer labels #lgbtqplus #transgender #gender #gender queer #there might’ve been better ways to phrase things but i do Not have the brainpower #i might also have gotten a bit off-track but ok #i do not mean it to be offensive and if it is pls tell me. i admit to being ignorant on a lot of things #i should’ve put that one on top but oh well #🫠

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