#there isnt a set time where youre supposed to lose your virginity

[hyewka]

If it not tmi and only if u want to answer did it hurt when you lost your v card so many ppl say it does and doesn’t how could I prevent it from hurting im nervy

I’m part of the bunch that had a less than a decent first time lol but thats partly due to the circumstances surrounding it.

Generally though I have learned some things so I think 1. lessen your expectations but not too much to the point where you’re expecting it to be the most terrible thing ever (you might not orgasm the first time you do it and thats entirely okay!!!!) and 2. i think foreplay is a big part of it, and why I think so many people have had terrible experiences. With your partner, make sure to ease those nerves just even one notch down with foreplay (making out, dry humping, fingering, dirty talk etc) and getting you lubricated enough, also if your partner’s a man he needs to lube it up as well. I hope youre practicing safe sex so I would say to ask your partner to use a water based lube (never oil based) if theyre using a condom 🙏

3. If you have experience with getting yourself off and knowing your body well, you’re set!! I had my first time when I was confused as fuck about my body so it was just an awkward time but if you masturbate, then guiding the person on how to make you feel better is going to do like, wonders for you.

I personally hold the belief that if youre not going to do it for the first time with someone experienced then do it with someone you actually have an emotional connection with, like someone you trust to navigate it because its a very vulnerable experience. Sex is also 10x more enjoyable with someone you actually like lol so avoid fucking someone you dont know for the first time I would say is a good tip

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Oh god Anon

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(27) Bottled Water Or Tap Water?Bottled, as ours is rusty as fuck, and has actually fucked with the color of my hair

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(57) Post A Screenshot Of Your Tumblr Feed.Can’t bc tumblr mobile

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(62) Do You Make Your Bed In The Morning?I flip the covers back into place, but other than that no

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(66) Do You Get Homesick?I do not consider where I live 'home’. I feel that my summer theatre camp is my home, and fuck yes, I miss it

(67) Are You A Virgin?Yea

(68) What Shampoo And Conditioner Are You Using Right Now?Well, I have herbal essences ladies conditioner but I stole my guy friend’s dove shampoo at camp

(69) If You Were Far From Home And Needed To Sleep For The Night, Would You Choose To Rent A Crappy Motel Room For $60 Or Sleep In Your Car For Free?Depends where I am, what the room is like, how much money I have

(70) Are Both Of Your Blood Parents Still In Your Life?Sadly, yes

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(81) Do You Like Meeting New People?Yes

(82) Do You Wear Rings? If You Do, Take A Picture Of Them.Yeah I do, but TUMBLR MOBILE

(83) Do You Sleep With Your Bedroom Door Open Or Closed?CLOSED. I get anxious about it open, because I’m alone in the basement, and the black hell hole while I’m most vulnerable scares me. If I had someone with me I think I would be okay though

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(86) List All Of Your Different Beauty Products You Have Right Now.2 things of eyeliner1 thing of mascara1 eyeshadow palette

(87) Are You A Day Or Night Person?Night

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(89) Tell Me About A Dream That You Had And When It Happened.I dont even remember anything of any dream

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(92) Do You Wear Jeans Or Sweats More?Jeans

(93) How Do You Look Right Now?comfortable

(94) Name Something That Relaxes You.Roan’s voice, or Dan Howell’s voice

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