#then I went thru a phase where I had relatively extreme acne and always felt like omg everyone is looking!! everyone is staring!!

[datingdonovan]

I hope the thing about the mbti personality and why the relationship ends are still open!

I'm INTP and all my relationship ended because of my insecurities of my personality and body (I'm a bit chubby...)

Thank u very much if you do it and merry Christmas!! ^^

a/n: omg these were actually closed but you were miraculously the only person to request after the deadline so let's do it :)!! I hope you enjoy and have a very merry Christmas as well!!! p.s. im sure you are amazing :) ive found that so often we're our biggest critics when really very few people are noticing the things about us that we have glaring insecurities about!

ok ok ok so I know you've been hesitant to start dating again after the last few times, but I swear I've got somebody you might like. this is such a funny thing to say, but I met him because he was teaching one of my pe classes? I guess he has to volunteer as part of some club or maybe a class he's taking or something??? I have no clue, I barely know the guy. anyway, his name's... iwaizumi

ok so whatever the reason he's doing this phys ed teaching thing, like he is REALLY good at it. I swear he's so so sweet and understanding with people like don't get me wrong he's a really intense teacher and pushes us so HARD but like, he totally knows everyone's limits and knows how to get people out of their comfort zones in a way that's not too aggressive?? I for one am terrible at doing the different poses omg but like, he's so gentle when he corrects you and his goal is never to make you feel bad about not doing it right, it's to help you in whatever way he can. truly this guy kinda has the patience of a saint and is so kind to every body, which is really funny because you wouldn't initially expect it. I feel like he can come across as super gruff, and he has some friends in the class who seem like they're taking it just to goof off and make his job harder hahhahaa and with them he has a SUPER short fuse haha :) but with everyone else he's such a good calm teacher who like, seems very serious about what he does despite the fact that this is literally a pe class we have to take to graduate hahaha. yeah I get this sense that since he has this tough exterior he wouldn't be phased by much even if you were a little bit bad at feelings or communication, and honestly he might act out of turn sometimes too like he does with his friends hahaha but on the whole he seems really very chill and like, he probably doesn't want to have drama in the relationship like I feel like you two could be really honest with each other and not worry too much about if it hurt to hear something, because the goal is always to just be better together :) I feel like he's really very supportive in his own quiet, kinda stern way, maybe not the most typical doting boyfriend hahaha but he's extremely aware of what people need and he really seems devoted to helping them achieve their goals, and I just think he would be so supportive of YOU and totally encourage you always to love yourself and be confident. omg he would also LOVE you I mean are you kidding he would think you're so smart and snarky and fun!! I feel like he would be so in awe of your quippy energy omg!! and I feel like the fact that you're both sort of on the quieter, more reserved, maybe a little less feelsy side would make you this intense cool couple that like, is sort of a mystery to everyone else like you'd both be so attractive and cool and you'd also get up to some wacky shenanigans but the two of you together at home on the couch is like, so chill and intimate in a totally different way that no one sees. ugh literally everyone is swooning over his muscles in this phys ed class but I can just see him only having eyes for you, covering you in kisses omggg... I swear. before the end of the term, im gonna try to get his number for you... but. like, in the least awkward way possible