#theartofnoize

[rolldabeatz]

Houseparty back this Saturday catch me dropping mixes and beats like this old and new classics #jaysonsmythe #houseparty #resident #theartofnoize #house #techhouse #deephouse #oldschool #classics #boatparty #thames #dj #mixes #mcchalkiewhite #leefirth #floripa #comegetmylovin #dionne #dionnewarren #summieroflove #rave #bigshotrecords #1988 #music https://www.instagram.com/p/B0OulFMgVOt8h-aaT10W0rn8bdM8chtlumae840/?igshid=z811frra5141

[monriatitans]

Mon, February 15, 2021 “Imagine you’re at a party. A guy offers you a drink. You say no. He says ‘Come on, one drink!’ You say ‘no thanks.’ Later, he brings you a soda. ‘I know you said you didn’t want a drink, but I was getting one for myself and you looked thirsty.’ For you to refuse at this point makes you the asshole. He’s just being nice, right? Predators use the social contract and our own good hearts and fear of being rude against us. If you drink the drink, you’re teaching him that it just takes a little persistence on his part to overcome your ‘no.’ If you say ‘Really, I appreciate it, but no thanks’ and put the drink down and walk away from it, you’re the one who looks rude in that moment. But the fact is, you didn’t ask for the drink and you don’t want the drink and you don’t have to drink it just to make some guy feel validated.” — JenniferP, The Art of "No" ~~~~~~ ~~~~~~ ~~~~~~ #jenniferp #theartofno #socialcontract #fearofbeingrude #nomeansno #nomeansstop #nomeansdropthesubject #learnsomethingneweveryday #monriatitans @lazypacific https://www.instagram.com/p/CLUiM-hDMaN/?igshid=xejt0qo6zpo6

[igtc]

The Art of “No”

     I’ve always had a problem, saying no to people. I am one of those people that find fulfillment and happiness in helping others. I know some people will say that you need to be content with only yourself, that if all of your friends decided to say fuck you and never talk to you again that you should be fine. I think this is bullshit we as humans are social animals we need interaction with each other. In fact I learned of the experiment that King Frederick of Germany did a long time ago and how he put babies in the care of nurses and were not allowed to speak to them as well as interact with them in some ways and all the babies died. Of course, this is not to say that we should only depend on others for our happiness because that is also wrong. In essence, we need to strike a balance. 

     I, in my never ending goal of helping others, would help others to the point where I would become irritated and resentful. I realized that in order to help others and myself in the most effective way possible was to strike a balance. If I make plans with myself for something really important to me, unless it is a life or death situation I will not change them for anyone. I am important as well. I may not think too highly of myself, but I would be doing myself a disservice to not uphold my value of every living thing having value. How can I say everyone’s life has importance and then turn around and not think so of my own. Me keeping plans with myself and completing them makes me insanely happy. Me being someone that sucks to be around would be terrible because my family depends on me to be the one who is able to listen, hang out, and give good advice. This may be bothersome to some, but I like that my role is simple and one that I genuinely enjoy. I have to be at my best so I can in turn help others be at their best and this is exactly what I consider myself to find fulfillment and happiness in. The only difference is I discovered a more effective way to do so. 

     Also, stop bending over backwards for people that are not willing to do the same for me and this was one of the most liberating things I have ever done. Gone were the feelings of resentment because I was no longer making myself unhappy in order to make someone else happy. I also realized it was my fault to a certain extent. If you find a bag that continuously produces money, all normal humans will continuously take it no matter what they end up doing with it. Eventually it will become second nature and you’ll stop noticing it. Same way with doing favors, people will stop noticing that they are asking you for favors constantly. Then they get upset when you abruptly stop and this throws off the dynamic that you let happen for so long. If they value you in a way that you want to be valued they will realize their mistake and adjust, if not then they need to be let go. By them not valuing you, they in turn don’t bring value to your life, so there is no point in keeping it around. 

     If you learn to say no which is an extremely hard task, also learn to be unwilling to compromise this standard that you have set for yourself for anyone. It goes without saying that if something is life or death or occasional by ask means help. Also, know that you will fuck up at times and that is totally cool because in the end the gratification will be immense.

[christina-i-am]

An empty vessel cannot pour forth... #Focus #TheArtOfNo https://www.instagram.com/p/BnGRjBHA0u9/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1ujp9vcjq8b2v

[khthompson]

A #documentary about #TheArtOfNoize #DungeonFamily # OutKast AND #goodiemob Of course I approve! Watched it! Loved it! #JawJa

[rolldabeatz]

Back to the grind...its a 4 day week, roll on the weekend 😎👋#satur8 #bricklane #hanburystreet #hanburystreetart #theartofnoize #edition #editionvip #editionvipparties #housemusic #deephouse #deeptech #deeptechhouse #techhouse #soulful #garage #music (at Soho, London UK) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cit9lefgSh1cCfw_iBPDA_0P-gmlSy2CxtkVhk0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[rolldabeatz]

Good day peeps, unfortunately the start days has had to be pushed back week due to unforeseen circumstances, we will kick off from the 24/09/2022 deepest apologise for the inconvenience and hope to see you soon ❤️😎#satur8 #sophisticated #hanburystreet #hanburystreetart #bricklane #shoreditch #house #deephouse #vocalhouse #deeptech #techhouse #soulful #soulfulhouse #garage #theartofnoize #edition #editionvip #editionvipparties (at Buckingham Palace) https://www.instagram.com/p/CikLzfRswpZjwXGwdu33mgSxEmHLSZPLL4Gg3I0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[rolldabeatz]

Looking forward to linking up with @jus_jetson and the rest of the team for T&G Resurrected 😎 #techouse #techhouse #deeptechhouse #deeptech #deephouse #theartofnoize #edition #editionvip #editionvipparties #hoxtonsidehustle #promethean #music #pioneerdj #pioneer #pioneercdj2000 #pioneerxdjxz https://www.instagram.com/p/CgRphJ-s1stBFX_OXquJkDuB9xG5eCmKjSucwE0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[rolldabeatz]

A young me probably just got out of a.w.o.l mid day chilling to some jungle 🐉 dragon stout and ting, out side the offie on Murray grove till it was time for Sunday dinner lol 😆 @mervincaessr @carlayton @fiddypark @glen.thomas.3517 TBT #tbt #throwbackthursday #awol #awoljungle #paradiseclub #islington #murraygrove #jungle #raving #theartofnoize #edition #editionvip #editionvipparties #drumandbass #dj (at AWOL - Another way of life) https://www.instagram.com/p/CfKGanSsh-dLIvN0kztJM0MCS-vIub8bXNgEjQ0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[rolldabeatz]

Call from my boy @westbehri to go new river studios Jubilee Street party great evening 😎👣#feetdipped #newriverstudios #sevensisters #hiddenvillage #theartofnoize #editionvipparties #editionvip #drumandbass #house #deephouse #techhouse #deeptech #dj #art #soundsystem (at Seven Sisters Road) https://www.instagram.com/p/CeYf3xQg4GWJYVldSzJ2ssCPI58H2gO0Zh0Q4U0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[rolldabeatz]

The calm before the storm, fightklub launch BOXE in soho was of the hook big up @djjjfrost @troydureh @kru__stylus and the team and marshall street leisure #theartofnoize #edition #editionvipparties #editionvip #fightklub #fightklubfamily #fitness #fitnessmotivation #drumandbass #house #deephouse #techhouse #soulfulhouse #garage (at Soho, London UK) https://www.instagram.com/p/CeYch4tgbwI-ueVkPFqK9Unr5LVmnK1rsystAM0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[rolldabeatz]

Today I’ll be down in soho for the Fightklub ‘BOXE’ launch party, i’ll be spinning some tunes along with the legend JumpinJack Frost #theartofnoize #edition #editionvipparties #editionvipparties #fightklub #healthyraving #house #dnb #jumpinjackfrost (at Soho, London UK) https://www.instagram.com/p/CeN84qOgo34pDR1pTI1BRjhjHfrax5shnMVwBI0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[rolldabeatz]

Just a few more days till we hit Camden for a daytime party affair, kicks of from 4pm thru to 12, get your free tickets via this link https://ra.co/events/1532928 or catch you on the live stream #djladykay #house #deephouse #deeptechhouse #deeptechminimal #camden #thecamden #jaysonsmythe #theartofnoize #theartofnoize®est2010 #pioneerdj #cdj2000 #daytimeparty #free https://www.instagram.com/p/CdsFD5AsaWIoDQJVSA0xO92s4-a_awln6Xmmv80/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[rolldabeatz]

Check out my brand new mix giving you the house tech and deep house vibe, with some slick vocal re-edits link in the bio #jackndanny #djchus #brokenears #basementjaxx #gwharrison #rolandclarkmusic #house #deephouse #techhouse #vocalhouse #theartofnoize®est2010 #theartofnoize #editionvipparties #mixcloud (at Falera, Switzerland) https://www.instagram.com/p/CCqfOvyA7UxU1wU9pxU4LQ5yARNl59pWHzQfwY0/?igshid=nzqtwbmxje4m

[rolldabeatz]

This weekend Hackney moves brings you a weekend of fitness well-being and music joins us over 2 days in Hackney downs with some on the countries finest fitness instructors and Dj/Mc legends and live pa’s grab your free ticket Fightklub.co.uk/events #norristhebosswindross #mccreed #djrandall #djbrockie #sweetfemaleattitude #jaysonsmythe #theartofnoize®2010 #edition #editionvip #editionvipparties #fightklub #hackney #hackneymovesfestival #fitness #wellbeing #music https://www.instagram.com/p/Cdp4cnQst10FVi_dBme2lKzrIbJDiXZQX0-ujw0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[rolldabeatz]

https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/genres-of-house-tickets-290082323037?aff=ebdssbdestsearch&keep_tld=1 This Mothering Sunday catch me down at club shoreditchs daytime affair from 1pm thru to 1am, copy the link to get you’re free ticket bring your lover bring your friend bring your mom all is welcome 😎😁 #enjoytheweekend #edition #editionvip #theartofnoize®2010 #theartofnoize®est2010 #house #deephouselovers #deeptechhouse #techhouselovers #hoxtonsidehustle #hoxton #shoreditch #yourmomshouse (at Your Moms House) https://www.instagram.com/p/CbZTdBCscHizJR-5rNHia6wevj95EKhZOFBx5I0/?utm_medium=tumblr