#the very reason i hate mmd yu is cuz she reminds me of my own mother

[lavender-phoenix-flames]

Everytime I see a jc stan excuse his abuse as "That's how Asian parenting works" I get so angry, even worse when they say "I am an Asian so I know"

I am a South Asian who grew up with a mother that was a calmer version of madame yu and in a very toxic household, and it's infuriating enough for me to already be surrounded by people that excuse abusive parenting, I don't need y'all to do the same. Both jiang cheng and madame yu are abusive narcissists and I know that cuz I grew up with one.

Stop abuse apologia! "abused becomes the abuser" yeah but what about those who choose to become a better person, do everything in their power to improve themselves and not be like their parents, the cycle breakers.

Personally, I think you take away credit from people who go through some terrible traumatic situations and don't let it break their will to remain kind and righteous and who don't turn bitter when you excuse a character's bad behavior. Cuz' jc gets all this undeserving praise for not even doing the bare minimum and y'all find reasons to take away wwx's very deserved applause and respect for doing everything in his power to do the righteous thing.

Jiang cheng is pathetic, he is weak willed, spineless and an abuser and no amount of apologies and excuses will change that.