#the two incidents of “what what is your gender again?” where both by oblivious cis people but it was still fun

[notsatyr]

Two months on T and I've been getting people express uncertainty about my gender already I'm soooo stoked :D

I'm really not sure why? The only obvious change is my voice, which is deeper but to people who know me mostly just sounds like I'm sick lol

but yeah one of my major motivations for medically transitioning was how fucking hard to was to get people to use my prefered pronouns, with them feeling the need to ask in the first place being out of the question. Like idk why but pre-T no one ever really asked for my pronouns which sucked. When i insisted on my prounouns, it also almost sucked more to watch people have such a hard time gendering me correctly even when they tried than to just outright be misgendered. I want to at least exist is a way that makes people unsure of what my pronouns are. I want people to ask or to assume and have the assumption be different day to day and person to person. idk. I'm happy to be closer to that, for whatever reason <3