#the only Not poly person i met at that time was such a dumb himbo he didnt realize i was asking him out. then he left the country so oh well
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I am yet again debating if im willing to wade through dating apps to try and meet someone
#rant#i guess like. im chronically ill. and work remotely. so its probably in theory the best way to meet ppl?#but in the past few years dating apps have degraded to be designed for users to find it harder to meet other ppl which 1 super sucks#and 2 means the apps barely do their only purpose for users!!!#and then like... 3 years ago when i was on apps... i matched with 10k ppl#and talked to dozens of ppl. and asked out many ppl#and no one wanted to actually date. they wanted comoliments from strangers#only poly ppl wanted to date and i didnt wanna be in a poly relationship#the only Not poly person i met at that time was such a dumb himbo he didnt realize i was asking him out. then he left the country so oh well#and like... after that many nonstop poly people and married couples and non-looking compliment-fishers for uears straight i was just#tired and depressed. i felt like i was unable to meet anyone even after trying hard for years. so i gave up apps#i tried meeting ppl in person too both then and since. i kept meeting married or partnered ppl so not available. or aromantic ppl not#wanting relationships. so then i also felt burned out and like welp okay. even in my hobbies and social events i only meet unavailable#ppl. so i guess i felt a bit hopeless and lonely either way#if i do a dating app again im just gonna try being as brutally honest as i can? i feel like i was before but#maybe i can do better? like: studies chinese and japanese. writes fanfiction. into X Y Z games and shows. nonbinary. bi. looking for#potential for long term relationship.#do i also list demiromantic? demisexual? i would rather not but i also dont want a naive person to just Assume im not into them just cause i#dont want sex for 3-5 months. i just... need to feel a crush after time bonding for a while before i want that ;/
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