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a-binary-choice · 2 years ago
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Just a recap of what we do know (links to proof at bottom):
Ever since the little girl started sexually harassing Ted under his pics on Insta and under his tweets people have been telling her or asking her not to do this and to please treat him with respect. Even if her age wasn't in her IG bio months ago it was clear she is very young, and it is definitely clear NOW.
2. How this all 'started'
He was mentioned on Tw multiple times in tweet replies that this girl is a MINOR and that she should stop this. He was active on Twitter liking tweets, the girl had responded to his tweet about the dentist 'I bet you go to lots of wild parties Ted'. He 'liked' this reply, so he saw her commenting suggestively again and showed her he LIKES her reply. It's been clear that him liking or replying to her comments (she commented 'be my munch' months ago and Ted replied 'oh my...') has encouraged her to keep at it, because she never stopped and she has been saying to ppl, 'he thinks I'm funny, he always likes my replies'.
3. After he liked her reply about the wild parties he started to follow her. Mind you, he knew this 15 y/o girl had been posting half naked pics of herself on her public twitter, because he followed her almost right after a couple ppl notified him. Ppl say he doesn't have time to check everything... He is very active on socials, he even liked an older pic by a 22 y/o female fan, proving he def scrolls down on twitter accounts, because he had to scroll down several tweets to get to the pic he liked.
4. People are now saying some proof of DMs someone spread is fake (it was an edit the girl made, we weren't aware this was fake). Okay, that's fair. But let's not get side tracked. The real DMs will never be shared. We do know the girl showed off to her friends on TikTok saying he followed her (which we know is true because we can see it's true) and that he initiated contact by saying 'Why, hello [name redacted]', which sounds flirty and inappropriate. People are calling the girl a liar. But what if she's not lying about him DMing her now that he's following her? Would it be okay then? Even in a non sexual context it's inappropriate for a 57 y/o man to be social media friends with a 15 y/o girl, and we've already established there's a sexual context from her side at least, because it's been documented. Teachers get fired for stuff like this, because of the power imbalance.
5. If you're accused of something like this, what would you do if you were innocent? Would you stay quiet, waiting for it to blow over? Or would you do anything to show you haven't been doing anything illegal? What seems icky to me is that the girl has locked her Tw, so if Ted likes a lewd pic, no one would know. And if there's nothing disturbing or illegal going on, why are her Tw and IG profiles private and has she deleted her entire TikTok acc?
This is not drama, it turned into that because people launched personal attacks, I have been guilty of that as well. I won't anymore because that is not what this is about. This is about a minor being at risk OR a celeb nearly ruining his whole career because he didn't just tell the girl to stop, didn't just block the girl, but instead decided it would be smart to follow her and most probably DM her, initiating contact with a 15 y/o.
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a-binary-choice · 2 years ago
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Just a recap of what we do know:
Ever since the little girl started sexually harassing Ted under his pics on Insta and under his tweets people have been telling her or asking her not to do this and to please treat him with respect. Even if her age wasn't in her IG bio months ago it was clear she is very young, and it is definitely clear NOW.
2. How this all 'started'
He was mentioned on Tw multiple times in tweet replies that this girl is a MINOR and that she should stop this. He was active on Twitter liking tweets, the girl had responded to his tweet about the dentist 'I bet you go to lots of wild parties Ted'. He 'liked' this reply, so he saw her commenting suggestively again and showed her he LIKES her reply. It's been clear that him liking or replying to her comments (she commented 'be my munch' months ago and Ted replied 'oh my...') has encouraged her to keep at it, because she never stopped and she has been saying to ppl, 'he thinks I'm funny, he always likes my replies'.
3. After he liked her reply about the wild parties he started to follow her. Mind you, he knew this 15 y/o girl had been posting half naked pics of herself on her public twitter, because he followed her almost right after a couple ppl notified him. Ppl say he doesn't have time to check everything... He is very active on socials, he even liked an older pic by a 22 y/o female fan, proving he def scrolls down on twitter accounts, because he had to scroll down several tweets to get to the pic he liked.
4. People are now saying some proof of DMs someone spread is fake (it was an edit the girl made, we weren't aware this was fake). Okay, that's fair. But let's not get side tracked. The real DMs will never be shared. We do know the girl showed off to her friends on TikTok saying he followed her (which we know is true because we can see it's true) and that he initiated contact by saying 'Why, hello [name redacted]', which sounds flirty and inappropriate. People are calling the girl a liar. But what if she's not lying about him DMing her now that he's following her? Would it be okay then? Even in a non sexual context it's inappropriate for a 57 y/o man to be social media friends with a 15 y/o girl, and we've already established there's a sexual context from her side at least, because it's been documented. Teachers get fired for stuff like this, because of the power imbalance.
5. If you're accused of something like this, what would you do if you were innocent? Would you stay quiet, waiting for it to blow over? Or would you do anything to show you haven't been doing anything illegal? What seems icky to me is that the girl has locked her Tw, so if Ted likes a lewd pic, no one would know. And if there's nothing disturbing or illegal going on, why are her Tw and IG profiles private and has she deleted her entire TikTok acc?
This is not drama, it turned into that because people launched personal attacks, I have been guilty of that as well. I won't anymore because that is not what this is about. This is about a minor being at risk OR a celeb nearly ruining his whole career because he didn't just tell the girl to stop, didn't just block the girl, but instead decided it would be smart to follow her and most probably DM her, initiating contact with a 15 y/o.
TR supporters are different breed or they collectively smoke something?
They shoot themselves in their own feet with contradiction after contradiction
"Just because our uwu kind likes something doesn't mean he agrees with it".. that's literally the only function of like. By the same logic, how do they know they agree with something they read? Don't tell me bc they like it or reply to it, bc contradiction uh huh
"He doesn't have time to go through every post, comment, like"
Yeah he does. He liked someones posts from couple months ago. You do seem to have a lot of free time, going through Ji's old posts to try paint her as obsessive fan, while you choose to ignore the fact Ted follows 15yo who posts bikini pics. If anything, that only shows we are open minded enough to get past the obsession when there is questionable behaviour involved
And the classic " We don't give a shit about 15yo girl, she's old enough to decide for herself" only when it comes to Ted, of course. When we share screenshots of her comments under Teddy's posts, we are not protecting her privacy. So mean of us.
Then the same people go and tell their own fans to block all of us for bullying, when we only try to spread the information availible to anyone with two working eyes and more than 1 brain cell. Then dig up "dirt" to try make us look bad, that doesn't look very friendly now does it?
And don't get me started about the situation with TRaimi's behaviour towards women. Excuse after excuse, she was a sex worker (or not. How tf do you know? Even if so, that makes it right to treat them like dirt bag? You are probably the Karen that treats people in hospitality as personal servants), she was obsessed fan (still deserving of dignity), she wanted it (clearly not, otherwise she wouldn't be upset about it)
I'm just so tired. This is never ending always reoccurring situation in Hollywood. Old person takes advantage of young person (in any way shape or form. Can be literal SA, coercion, or inappropriate behaviour online) and everyone is sooo quick to sweep it under the rug, because celebrities can do no wrong. As if they ever did anything good for people, sure entertainment is important, but to an extent of excusing this behaviour? I'd rather paint rocks for fun than support these celebrities.
The list goes on and on, there is so many people but the outcome is always the same. Nothing, sadly. And there probably won't be nothing done about this either, again sadly. For now, he chose to speak up by being silent. I don't know about you, but someone accusing me of samothing so disturbing, I'd be the first one to sharing screenshots or whatever, to prove my innocence.
(No he isn't too busy you delusional "I hope he notices me" gal, he is busy liking new tweets and following new people. And yet, still, didn't unfollow said 15yo child.)
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