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peachyteabuck · 6 months ago

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I never understood the sharing bank accounts when you get married 😭😭 especially if it goes shit and ur kind of fucked. Like no thanks. I like my own control of what I earn.

I get why some people do it from a financial perspective (esp if you're not co-habitating) but also! why the fuck are you letting someone else touch your fucking money!!

i moreso understand a savings account (esp a high-yield one) but this idea of creating a money pit..........for what, so you don't have to answer a venmo request?? how do you people BUDGET. i just cannot!!

#the book said that data (kind of) said married couples who shared a bank acct were happier but #tbh we've been cohabitating for nearly 4 years!!#i also understand it more for couples who have different work demands #e.g. one works full and one works part #or one doesn't work #but sorry if i won the lottery tomorrow i'd show up to work on monday.#i like my job #i like to work #it is my goal to always be financially independent #all communique has been redacted for your safety;

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