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shy-sapphic-ace · 2 years ago

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Heyyy, so, I need advice. I'm having another sexuality crisis and now I think I might actually be a lesbian... Should I change my username from shy-bi-and-ace to shy-sapphic-ace (or smth like that)?

#ok so here's the thing #I recently found out it's normal for lesbians to have had crushed on male celebrities or male fictional characters #and I was like #oh #bc when I was young I had a *few* male fictional character crushes bc I read a lot #(but never female characters I thought I only liked boys then)#but looking back now I definitely don't have a crush on those guys anymore #and it hasn't happened since I discovered I like girls (all my fictional crushes since then have been girls)#so apparently that was just compulsory heterosexuality speaking??#the article I read said those crushes were “completely unobtainable” and “allows the lesbian in question to distance themselves from men”#and honestly that sounds exactly like what I was doing #so anyway!#I've been calling myself bi for maybe a year #at first I thought I liked girls & boys #then realized I'm not really attracted to guys #and now I've been using “bi” bc I say I like girls (and maybe??? nonbinary people)#but the only enby person I know is my friend #and I definitely don't have a crush on them #so honestly I don't think I'm romantically attracted to nonbinary people?#so only girls?#which would make me a lesbian??#right?#uuuurrrgggh this is so confusing #if y'all know how to make sure if I'm really lesbian or bi or SOMETHING #let me know? please?#lesbian #bi #wlw #sapphic #asexual

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