#thats not just a double standard but a demeaning one

[tropicalscream]

ive been demeaned, insulted, mocked and manipulated by other trans fems for the crime of being overweight and not passing. thats it i never go out of my way to interact, theyll find me like blood in the water snd ruin my night

ive been misgendered, insulted, and accused of heinous shit by trans macsbfor the crime of being a furry, being mentally ill, not doing the whole "tomboy dommy mommy" act

i have no faith no safety snd no love for the local trans community. snd then I go online and see the same stuff.

trans sw refuse to partner with their fellow fat trans siblings

femboys like fin snd the rest worshiped while degrading the other trans sisters.,

pasisng trans women dojng the whole "fuck u i got mine", saying their better at being trans, playing crocodile tears when the uggos call them out, calling us bricks

.trabs macs whod rather double down then self reflect about how fucked up their fetishizing internet obsessions might ne hurtful and call us terfs

that no matter the "community" being hot by Western beauty standards is all that matters. if your ugly you have no value to anyone

I know im ugly, im covered in scars, in bruises, in all over my arms my legs my back my face , im mentally ill , im traumatized 7 ways to sundau, im fat in hairy i have no voice training, im cringe, I talk to much bout shit no one cares about, im touch starved, im needy

i dont expect ppls affection/attraction nor do i demand it.

I just wanna be left alone. let me be the hermit in the cave and please just do me the kindness of ignoring my existence

im begging you

[astharoshebarvon]

Finally saw wanda vision after two years and wow, she really was trash. I am hoping miss brainwasher remains dead and buried. On one hand we have bucky who is so traumatised by what he did and then we have this horrid woman. Vision deserved better than kid stealer. No wonder those kids were afraid of this supposed “hero” and wanted their actual mother not this creature.

Loki show is so bad, ended up finish seeing it too. Why’d they create something this insulting? They could have just said, we hate Loki so much and are jealous of his fame and popularity that we’ll do everything in our power to demean him. That sif scene still gives me the creeps, Loki owed her nothing. She can go to hell. As for slyvie, that wasnt Loki no matter what people think. The mary sue ofc, cause thats what she was, she is not Loki in any way or form. Her character could be found in any ofc/character story or the homophobic ones where the sub male in MM ship is turned into a vile self insert/ofc.

It’s funny how even most horrid and gross female characters are treated by at least part of fandoms as great, even pedo women. Sorry, if I can sit here and call Sesshoumaru a lowlife, then so should horrid women be called so too if they are that. I guess these are the kind of people who shout in affair, husband is wrong.

No, the woman he is cheating his partner with is just as trashy and gross. It’s kind of scary how much female characters get away with just because they are female.

If what the know it all did to Ron had been done by a male, the boy would have been reviled like anything. The way Fleur was treated by females is horrifying at best and disgusting at worst.

No wonder people scream in slash fiction, dont treat female characters badly when they are outright insulted, killed in fm fiction. Don’t be so tired, just say you hate MM ships and go.

Then we have real weirdos who think their opinion is shared by all fans of that MM ship, they actually claim everyone cares about the vile female character. No, if you want to worship some horrid female character who is literal trash and bring her into the gay ship time and again, where the dom male actually insults his supposed love, the other male for this trash female in fic then thats entirely on you. Dont presume everyone shares your views. Maybe just admit you hate the sub male of that ship and shut up.

And its hilarious as hell those females characters are never mentioned in the homophobic, self insert stories or in fm.

These are the kind of people who would adore, love Caroline Bingley if darcy/elizabeth dynamic was in a MM ship. They would have Darcy like male be with caroline, would insult elizabeth like male and some creeps would say, we love caroline. The double standards are baffling to say the least.

I am so happy this kind of behaviour is actually called out in MM novels, literally no one wants to sit and read about some gross female character in gay erotica where she just creates problems and problems for the couple and is terrible all around.

Whenever I see stuff like this I am reminded of merope gaunt. At this point its not even shocking that people defend this rapist and blame the rape victim for leaving her horrid self.

[theskyexists]

Sometimes I remember how spitting furious i was that they changed the Master's name to 'missy' when she regenerated into a woman and I think

I was right

[savedbystyle]

the man (t.s.)

pairing: tony stark x reader

summary: You’re furious of the double standards between you and Tony Stark

warnings: some curse words, nothing much its just frustration no angst, secret dating

a/n: hi again! i really hope this does well because lately the interaction with my posts have been going down since ‘i forgot that you existed’ but this is my first tony fic! i really hope you guys like it and PLEASE comment if u like it and want to be tagged:) i also dont really touch on her actual job but just mention that shes a ceo so please keep in mind this is more about double standards not her job! 

(gif credit to creator!)

i would be complex i would be cool they'd say I played the field before i found someone to commit to

“Y/n!” “Y/n, look here!” “Is it true you broke up with Justin Hammer?” You blocked your face as bursts of light showered your figure. You tried avoiding the paparazzi as you made your way to your car. “Is it true you dumped Hammer for Tony Stark?” “Why are you always moving on so fast from your ex boyfriends?” 

You successfully made your way into the car and your driver quickly started driving to your penthouse in New York. You were rubbing your head when you decided to call your childhood best friend James Rhodes. “Rhode pick up” you muttered to yourself. 

“Hey y/n” “Rhodey I just came out of Per Se and the paps bombarded me, they know about Hammer” “Y/n, darling, it’s fine it was bound to get out at some point. I think you should go home and get some rest Marla (your publicist) will deal with it” “Yeah you’re right” “When am I not?” You laughed at his sassy remark “Bye James, love you” “Night y/n/n, love you” You ended the call and rubbed your temple, annoyed at the circumstances. 

and that would be okay for me to do every conquest I had made would make me more of a boss to you

You scrolled through instagram whilst sitting on your couch, waiting for Marla to get to your house. You stumbled on a video of Tony Stark. You watched it and were confused “Im a genius, playboy, billionaire, and philanthropist. I can get anyone I want and get whomever I want” 

You were angry, not at Tony but the fact that the paparazzi demeaned you for moving on too fast when in reality you only ever had two public boyfriends with a year gap in between them. But when Tony Stark does it, it’s powerful and seen as a sign of winning? 

You were waken from your thoughts by the knock on your door signaling that Marla was here. You opened the door to your friend who looked exhausted. “I’ve been up all night containing this mess the paps started. Everyone knows that you and Hammer broke up, and he even had something to say. Y/n, this is bad” 

You took her phone and watched the video on the screen of your ex boyfriend “Me and y/n broke up earlier this month, it disgusts me that she moved on so fast, I mean come on! That’s not her character. That’s mine and Tony’s! Y/n, stay in your lane darling” 

You were shocked at the false allegation and the fact that your ex attacked you for ‘moving on too fast’. “I need to speak up or do something about this Marla! What is this double standards for us, because i’m a women i’m not able to get as many deals as Stark and everything I do is scrutinized! I need you to schedule a press conference” “Alright y/n but if things go bad then,” “I know Y/l/n Tech will crash and burn but thats a risk i’ll take Marla. This is ridiculous” 

i'd be a fearless leader i'd be an alpha type when everyone believes ya what's that like?

“James, if I was a man i’d be a fearless leader and the alpha type. I have always been attacked and multiple times been taken down because i don’t know what it feels like when everyone believes you, whats that like James? Really? I don’t know simply for the fact that i’m a women” “You’re holding the press conference right? You tell them this exactly Y/n, don’t hold back. It hurts me too that you don’t get enough credit for being the CEO of one of the most influential tech company in the world” 

You sighed taking a bite of your hagen daz ice cream anticipating the conference tomorrow where you decided you were finally going to give the public a piece of your mind “I better sleep Rhodes, i’ll catch up with you later” “Bye y/n/n” You hung up the phone, with a pit in your stomach. 

i'm so sick of running as fast as I can wondering if I'd get there quicker if I was a man and I'm so sick of them coming at me again 'cause if I was a man then I'd be the man i'd be the man i'd be the man

You saw the mass amount of press waiting for you inside the room and adjusted your suit before walking on the stage. “Wait y/n” Marla stopped you and showed you a video of Tony Stark commenting on you, “What do you think about Y/n’s recent allegations?” “Well I think none of you pricks should be inserting yourself into her business. So what if she’s dating someone? Why can’t she? Me and Hammer can but not her? Go do something better with your lives, please” You watched as the video ended, appreciating your competitor commenting on you. You felt a little better knowing you had the Tony Stark on your side. 

“I’m here today to address the several rumors going around. First and for most, I am in fact not in a relationship with anyone but that shouldn’t matter in the first place. Please explain to me why I can’t be in a relationship or go on dates with someone after i’ve been broken up with? Second, I’m so sick of running as fast as I can simply to keep up with men because I get less opportunities and jobs because i’m a woman, and I truly wonder if i’d get there quicker if I was a man. We all know that if I was a man, then i’d be the man.

they'd say I hustled put in the work they wouldn't shake their heads and question how much of this I deserve

I run one of the most influential and highest grossing tech companies in the world and I that is what I want to be focussed on! Not the double standard and constant prying into my private life which will forever be private unless both parties come together and agree to talk about it. I hustled and put in the work, and I don’t need any more men shaking their heads and questioning how much of this power I deserve because I know I deserve it. So please, treat us as equals to men and have the same respect that you give men to women” 

You finished with a big sigh, and looked up and asked the press who were in shock “There will be no questions, I said what I needed to say” You walked off the stage feeling the power surging around you as you hugged Marla “That was brilliant Y/n, i’m so proud of you!” “Thanks Marl, I actually need to go somewhere before I go back home so you can go” Marla smiled and nodded before heading out as you walked towards your car, “Go to Stark Towers. There’s someone I need to meet” 

i'm so sick of running as fast as I can wondering if I'd get there quicker if I was a man and I'm so sick of them coming at me again 'cause if I was a man then I'd be the man i'd be the man i'd be the man

You got off the elevator and walked in the direction of Tony’s r&d lab. “Hi Tony” You said smiling at the man in front of you before setting down your bag and keys, going to sit next to the man. “Hi y/n/n, I was watching it live. You were amazing out there” You got out of the embrace and looked lovingly into your lovers eyes “Thank you for what you said Tones, it gave me what I needed. I love you so much” Tony smiled at you pulling you closer to him, wrapping his arms around you, “Always darling, cause if you were a man then you’d be the man” 

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I hope you guys enjoyed this! I wrote this in an hour with the prompt in my mind for a couple days. I really hope it resonated with some of you, because all of you are bad b!tches!!! For all my females out there, this one is for us! We are just as powerful as men and right now we don’t need anyone telling us were not.