#thats a boundary violated! major red flag! ee oo ee oo get out now bitch
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#if u know me irl do not read#ok so#i slowly chipped away at my mental health and financial stability to support HER#and now that shes starting to get her shit together im at square one money wise#(my mental health has actually been pretty great since the breakup which...indication?)#she gets to keep the pet (at least for now) bc i have to start all over#and on top of that she still owes me upwards of $3000#so ya know yeah im a little enraged#in hindsight i really shoulda seen this going badly#i remember saying 'its important for me to be honest with my parents'#only for her to talk me into hiding her unemployment from them so they wouldnt 'judge her'#thats a boundary violated! major red flag! ee oo ee oo get out now bitch#yeah were gonna renegotiate in a year so hopefully ill get her then but who knows#what i do know is right now? im pissed the hell off bc i deserved better. i deserve better right now not even just past tense#i wanted to get a place on my own pose breakup but nooooo i let her talk me into staying then too#i volated my boundaries and changed my plans and sacrified money and time for her and for what?#i worked myself juuuuust this side of burnout for her and for what?#there is no teacher like a bad experience#dont reblog#abby chats#im surprised they let me use this many tags. allyship
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