#that interacts with me automatically hates me. i wont say ppl hate me but i can say they always want to

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one of these days i'm going to kill myself

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☀ What's your rp pet peeve?

the salty af munday meme

☀ What’s your rp pet peeve?

//  There’s four things that tie with each other. Idk what I hate more.

Very peppery. Read at your own risk. 

NOTE* That I am NOT TARGETING anyone specific and not giving out names or urls. This is PERSONAL opinions and to WHY I dislike these things. Mostly because of bad experiences in other fandoms and why I don’t take part in these said things.  

When other accounts of the same muse try and compete with one another. 

That hasn’t really happened much, but there was one recently with another one of my muses that kinda ticked me off. They kinda hinting at me that I shouldn’t rp them b/c they wanted to and they’d be better at it, but I just ignored them and made an account anyway b/c rp is for fun and popularity shouldn’t be the main target. 

Mutuals only. ( The mean ones )

Jeez, the word sends a shiver down my back by bad experiences. Like I get people who have anxiety and stuff, but sometimes i’ll follow someone who’s mutuals only and later on idk if they follow me or not b/c I have a lot of followers to go through and find out.

Four times this happened to me: I put in their name in the follow check and it said they don’t exist. So I copy and paste and it says the same thing so I had to unfollow them and I never knew if I had a shot at rping with them no matter how much I liked them b/c I was afraid they’d attack me. If they’re not a mutual then what’s the use in following them?? Yeah, b/c you like them, but you wont get to talk to them.

Idk if the Transformers fandom is any different, but the mutuals only in the OVERWATCH fandom was fucking mean, man. You couldn’t even breath in their direction without them attacking you. Don’t cliques get tiresome after awhile??? It’s like highschool all over again. Where you have these and those cliques when the people who are new and just starting out end up as an outcast because people already have their inner groups. 

BUT NOT ALL “MUTUALS ONLY” PEOPLE ARE LIKE ANY OF THAT THOUGH !!!

I’ve met some really nice ones who branch out in this fandom, honestly. Other fandoms… Not so much.. But the Transformer fandom has REALLY improved with fanning out the toxic air. 

Attacking people when they ask for a rules page because their on mobile.

G o d the overwatch fandom was BAD about that. Like wtf bro, why the hell are they attacking mobile people who can’t find their rules page. Like obviously their interested in reading them. “ THERE IS A LINK ON MOBILE. YOU’RE A BLIND HORRIBLE PERSON IF YOU CAN’T FIND IT “

Take it from someone who uses the app a lot. Sometimes peoples rules page doesn’t show up for people on mobile. And they’ll go in on their mobile and show ppl where it’s at. Like just because it’s on theirs doesn’t MEAN it’s THERE for THEM. People shouldn’t get pissy over a simple copy and paste like wth. Come on.

Automatically blocking personals

Some personals are there to read interactions of their favorite characters and see nice edits, drawings, icons, etc… Idk why it’s a stereotype that when a personal follows their gonna automatically reblog rps their not apart of. I use to follow rpers on my personal so I can see when they replied and b/c they’re my friends and I love seeing them on my dash. Even if I never talked to them before I still like seeing them on my dash all the time, but if non rpers wanna enjoy rp content and take notes to hopefully join the rp community one day they can’t because they get blocked for doing nothing, but clicking the follow button. And if they don’t know how rpers do their thing on here and they do decide to join the rp world, they’ll be an outcast because they do things differently and can’t get into the cliques. 

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방탄소년단 BTS related recent personal thoughts

i noticed that lately ppl refrain for telling their honest opinions or thoughts related to bts on twitter so  i will just write shortly here all my fustration i have been feeling for these past months on this site becuase i feel a bit more confortable to do that in here. i watched that video that i just reblogged and i really enjoyed watching it.

"i actually want to see them in korea. they have too many tours."

i am a fan and i agree with these 2 ladies reporters.you dont know how i feel as a fan living in korea when the group i like are pretty much 70% of the year gone aboard. i dont know if it is indeed 70% of the time but it feels like that to me. BTS need to concentrate on korea more.

and my complain is why fans in korea itself get less concert dates which is only 2 days when other countries get more than 4 or 6? there are so many fans in korea that didn't managed to go to wings concert .me included.the ticketing was pure hell,i am sure some of you heard of it from twitter.i even wasted a sleepless night in the cold on the night before the first concert to see if they will sell any tickets,at the venue and nothing!that horrible it was.i usually avoid anything related to the wings tour because it was the only event i was waiting for this year since the epilogue era last year.probably i will be depressed and wont get over it the whole year becuase of it.especially...that some of the ppl that managed to get tickets are not even real fans.i know ppl that they are like"i am not really a fan but i just wanted to see what;s the hype about them.so i got a ticket"imagime my feelings when they are the only group i would stay in cold and rain for them for hours and starve myself because i cant move from my spot to be able to get a change to see them.i know,life is not fair.but it makes me sad that ppl like those manage to get tickets and real fans dont. because the membership the 3rd term was messy and shitty and so cheap and basically a lot of scalpers who got the membership only with the idea to buy tickets and sell them on ridiculous prices stealing the change from real fans that actually want to go and enjoy their favorites. the original price was 110.000 won which is pretty much around 100$ i guess and some of these illegally sold tickets were priced from 550.000 won up to 5.000.000 won.yup you read that well. they asked 5.000$ for a silly ticket.ridiculous! and a lot of the non-bangtan fans got their hands on the membership.i know someone myseld that she is not a fan and got the membership because it was cheap ans had nothing to lose..bighit better come with a better plan for the 4th term if they dont want the same chaos like this previous year.probably they are planing something new like i see they are unusually late with the infos about the new term.

another complain is that i heard a huge section in that cursed Gocheok Sky Dome (which i hate to death and it is not only me but a lot of fans because the view is super shitty,you cant really see them well the seats are so far away from the stage)was basically full with reporters and other idols that were invited.so a bunch of seats were gone automatically from us the fans only because those ppl came.i understand that these so called international stops are necessary more for publicity than for money and of course a great chanse to interact with their international fans(except for europe.us we dont exist. i am a european and if i would not have been currently in korea,i would have never ever had the chanse to see them if i was in europe),but bangtan need to concentrate on their own country trying to grow bigger here in korea.they are a hot issue in the kpop industry lately but still they havent reached that point were non-kpop ppl would know their group name.they do have a big korean fandom but that is pretty much it.as a fan from the begining that i was around in those times when no one pretty much knew who they were and there were only few hundreds of  ARMYs now it feel kinda weird and i still havent got used with the idea that they have thousands of fans in korea itself which is great knowing that most of the male idol groups are struggleing to actually gain a decent amount of fans,because too many groups. i failed attending the stop in korea,a lot of fans that went to the seoul stop will go to the manila one as well. there was this girl that i know personally that asked me if i want to go with her to manila because she has extra tickets,the venue is way better and the seats she got are really decent but hey,because life is unfair,i cant go.personal reasons.and i part of me is sobbing inside because i could go but i cant because yeah..money! cant afford to travel aboard. i probably sound like a salty person,maybe i am turning into a salty person,it's impossible not to when it is such a strong competition in here who manages to see them most and closer.. first of all they dont earn that much money with these world stops,except for japan.they do earn some with japan i undertstood. they can earn decent money from korea itself because there will be fans traveling all the way from diferent areas to seoul just to see them.they are a group that they sell really well currently so bighit doesnt have to worry about not managing to sell more concert days in korea itself more than those cursed 2 days they usually throw at us and after all this is bighit's main goal as a company :"money!" there should be Muster 4 going on soon in the future in few month..when exactly i have no idea.probably after september or so,when they are done with the Wings tour for good. but honestly i’m not that excited for it.if i managed to get a ticket,great it not i wont be that sad this time around.these fanmeetings are diferent from concerts. concerts are more fun.fanmeetings are basically an event that lasts around 2.h and 30min the most if not less. in which 1h itself is just a fricking scripted content like an interview.i almoust fall asleep last time.not that is not fun,ok i get it they answer some questions but i came to see the guys singing and interacting with the fans,that is why it';s a fanmeeting is it? but they dont...it's just more scriped...and then they perform some of their songs and bye you can go home thanks.well can't complain becuase the price is cheap anyway.at least it was.we will see if they will change the ones in the future. i am sure that the previous fanmeeting must have been more intime and warmer but having a meeting in that huge dome is definelly not like that.it feels cold...it didnt gave me the feeling of them interacting for real with fans. once i will leave this country i know that i will never see them again,except on a laptop screen if i am lucky to have internet.and i hate myself for being that type of fan that is too shy and get;s into panic mode when by some miracle one of the members are quite close to me.i should take the chanse and call their names and stuffs but i all the time i had that chanse i never did it.because there is like this thought in my head that tells me"you are not worthy of their attention.you are a piece of garbage comparing to them.you're too ugly and a failure, dont make them look at you.you dont deserve their attention for 3 secs.do not call his name". because of that i freak out and i lose those chanses.i keep saying i should make that thought silent next time and just enjoy the moment,but i never managed.i failed most of the times.

i am really proud of them,it haven’t sinked in me the idea that now are ridiculously popular comparing to how they used to be in 2013-2014.

they are the kindest idols i have ever seen and meet and observed comparing to other idols i have met.the only group that i care and admire and respect all 7 members.i hope they will never turn arrogant,that;s my only fear with this whole attention they are starting to get.

anyway.i should stop talking so much nonsense.i am sorry.i do not intend to upset anyone,i just needed to throw everything i have on my chest out.

i hope everyone has a good weekend.

[hanorganaas]

i ship kylux too! ppl dont hate it b/c of the ship itself just b/c racism is what made it so popular, as long as u like acknowledge that then you wont upset anyone

I completely understand. My first fandom SGA has a popular white m/m ship. It over dominates the fandom. And litterally scrolling on AO3 in that fandom for another ship is like finding a needle in a haystack.I wonder why This ship which has an unequal power dynamic is popular and not with not ship John Sheppard with the loyal bffl played by Jason Mamoa or his caring female friends, nope it had to be with the narcissist (I love Rodney but hes a fucking narcissist). And its obvious...they are both white and have dicks.Anyway basically i get the frustration. Do I wish people were like me the first time I saw Finn and Rey and were like Holy Fucking shit they need to kiss....yes. Do I get were the racism is yes. But just as long as finnrey shippers dont automatically assume I hate Finn (when hes my son) when i say oh I think Kylo and Hux need to get married as much as finn and Rey do were good. I want to be able to interact with the Finnrey fandom when Finn and Rey kiss in the Last Jedi and not have people be put off by me for shipping preferences you know. So when i see anti Kylux post from finnrey stans i get a little nervous I will be alienated