#thapad

[aahanna]

Cr- (insta) @/girlsbuzzindia

[j0shuasw1fey]

yeh toh muh par thapad ke equivalent tha

[bauliya]

Omg for the picky eating thing - my dad does the same thing 😐😐 we live in the US and he acts so weird abt eating food that’s not Indian, even when going on trips. Yet he calls me a picky eater for not liking 2 vegetables 😐

indian boomers who will not touch 99.9% of world cuisines, any form of meat, eggs 3/7 days a week, meals from any restaurant that isn't pure vegetarian or sarvanna bhavan, and will take pressure cookers on vacations because they can't consume food that isn't exactly cooked to their palate for even one weekend, about their children who refuse to eat karela: arre itne spoiled ho hum ko jo milta tha khushi khushi khate the meri hi galti hai Maine thapad nahi maara tumhe bachpan mein

[yehuserdumbhai]

Jaagi jaagi soyi na main saari raat,

Tere liye

Bheegi bheegi palkein meri udaas,

Tere liye

Akhiyan bichayi maine,

Tere liye

Duniya bhulayi maine,

Tere liye

Tere liye

🫀🤌✨

Crush ko bheja ye song abhi,lodu ko ab bhi hint nhi mila to ghr jaake thapad maarke aaungi🗿♿

[vaibhavkhurrana]

baani-bishnoi​:

Sahej only grinned at his friend when he sat down and shrugged before holding out the phone towards the other man, allowing him to see his wallpaper before he said anything. The picture was one of Simrat of course, wearing the dupatta he’d gotten for her in the fair. It was a special moment and besides that–she looked so beautiful in that moment that he’d had to take a snap. “Teri bhabi thi phone pe, Simrat Bhatia, aur hum aaj shaam ko usse milne wale hain kyunki main chahta hoon ke tu usse mil, aur woh bhi tujhse mile.” Sahej was smiling a lot wider than he intended to but how could he not? He was talking about the love of his life–the woman who made him feel ready to dream and achieve those dreams. “Uske family walon ko pata nahi hai toh abhi bhi…chup chup se milna parta hai. Har koi tum dono jaisa nahi hota,” he said with an eye roll of jealousy. 

Right on cue as Baani hesitantly came to the vehicle. She quietly sat in the back, feeling a little guilty, only because she knew in a way she was a third wheel with the two of them and hoped Vaibhav spent enough time with Sahej because she only knew how badly the other man missed his best friend as well and didn’t want to be blamed for monopolizing too much of his time. “Sorry ke mujhe time lag gaya…woh Baba ka phone tha, woh bhi bahot khush hai Vaibhav ke tum aaye ho,” she told the man happily as they began the drive to Vaibhav’s home. 

Considering the fact that this was the first time Vaibhav was hearing about any woman hovering around his friend in a while, the man was of course shocked to hear that Sahej was referring to her as his bhabi. "Saale! Itni dher se car mein behte hue the hum aur tu mujhe ab bataa raha hai?! Chal photo dikha. Main bhi toh dekhoon paabi kidda di ae." He rolled his eyes at the playful taunt, "Main nahin kuch kehne wala kissi koh, lekin tujhe yaad nahin?" Vaibhav reminisced just as Baani joined them. "Woh din jab Baani ne apne baba koh dekha tha sadak pe aur mujhe zor se thapad maara." He was teasing of course, his big grin making it clear that there were no hard feelings. But yes, there was a time when things were hush hush between them as well. "Arre baby tum aa gayi?" he asked innocently, as if he hadn't noticed her slip into the backseat.

[bollywood-actors]

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[starburns]

one time i heard the phrase "pro marna" like 'proposing' (meaning around here as confessing a crush) and i think thats when everything went wrong

[inlovewithfictionalbeings]

Me to me: Thapad khayega ek?? Pagal insan!!! Sudhar ja abhi bhi time hai bewakoof!!

Not me laughing at this still for past 15 mins!

[asianfrootloops]

"mere hobbies hai... chocolate khana! ladko ko thapad marna!"

same anjali, same.

[space-cowboy-po]

Tujhe dekha toh ye jana sanaam thapad marne ka hota hai munn

[lubdubsworld]

Personal / Rant.

tw : physical abuse

I’ve been thinking of people who fall in love with the wrong person. 

As in a person who will not return your feelings or even if they do, it isn’t as much as you feel for them. 

When I was in high school, I was ...to be honestly, borderline obsessed with a guy in my class. He was your typical rich kid, except he wasn’t rude or arrogant. A very smart guy, good looking, good at sports...the works. We started dating when i was around fifteen and dated for about two years. 

Looking back...it was such an unhealthy imbalanced relationship. He was perfect on the outside, but in private , i spent every second of every day trying to prove to him that i loved him. ‘ Do you even love me?’ was a phrase he used to use on me so often, so much so that i began to doubt myself. I began thinking that the only way to show you love someone is by doing everything they ask you to. I had a terrible relationship with my father back then and i was desperate for this guy, Let’s call him K, to like me.

K understood early on that I was starved for affection , so he drowned me with it on occasion and then began to withhold it as ‘ punishment ‘. Silent treatments, ghosting, ignoring me if i didn’t do exactly as he said. Worse still, he convinced me that was the way love worked. You do the right thing you get loved, you make a mistake you don’t get love. 

It took him punching me in the jaw so hard, I split my lip , for me to wake up. 

I talked recently about watching an Indian movie called ‘ Thapad’ which is about a women wanting a divorce because her husband slaps her. There’s this dialogue she uses there, “ It’s like with that one hit... I saw everything that I’d been ignoring and setting aside.”

Something like that didn’t happen to me actually. Sometimes one hit isn’t enough to knock sense into you because you’re just too broken to understand that you deserve better. And the worse thing is women like this, women with such self esteem issues, they don’t stand out. Like if you looked at me back then, the way I carried myself, you’d never guess that i was in an abusive relationship. 

i was vibrant and charming and I would be up there on the stage at every single school festival, with a microphone because i loved being the MC. I was so good at it, so prolific with my words, just so in control...you know.? I have these memories of being the one announcing all these awards for my boyfriend and the giddy pleasure of being admired, of being envied by your peers, it can be so addicting, it blinds you to everything thats glaringly wrong. 

Even back then, at fifteen I was writing for my school magazines and taking part in competitions. I had met a lot of women , both my age and older and I put on this front that I was a staunch believer in being just as good as boys. ( Remember this was fifteen years ago , feminism wasn’t really a thing and neither was social media ) and i would sit around with these girls my age, and talk about never putting up with mistreatment but deep down I knew that it was all a lie. 

I was putting up with it. I didn’t know how to stop. Worse, I wasn’t even sure I wanted to stop. 

It’s shameful to admit but even after he hit me ( something he never got punished for by the way. I couldn’t go to school for ten days because of how swollen my jaw was but he didn’t get so much as a reprimand ) , I kept making excuses in my head that maybe, just maybe it wasn’t  so  bad..... i mean... he was a guy and men have shorter fuses right? Like they get angry easily and he had apologized.... so...

Thank fully I had a brother who was just not having any of it. He made it clear that he would break every bone in the guy’s body if he came near me and my ex boyfriend took the warning seriously because my brother was twenty five and in the army. Also we were almost at the end of High School and we got into different colleges so he just disappeared from my life. 

But looking back, I can’t help but wonder why it was so hard to leave. I keep thinking.... what was it that made me think that I couldn’t do better? 

It was probably a lot of things. i didn’t want to admit that i had been such a bad judge of character. Didn’t want to admit I’d wasted two years on the wrong guy. Didn’t want to be the one to say that K was a horrible person when everyone thought he was great.... Didn’t want that illusion of perfection to break. 

In my fic called the Perfect husband , the oc stays with Jungkook even though he hits her. He does truly heinous things to her but she sticks around because she’s in love. i remember how cathartic it was to write that out. 

In Areum in that fic i found a friend who understood that yes, sometimes your idea of love gets so skewed you forget that you deserve better.....( Man the amount of hate I got for that fic was insane lol ) But yes, what I’m trying to say is that, people like me...or fifteen year old me.... they need to learn their own way out. 

You can say all sorts of crappy, judgmental , terribly sanctimonious stuff to people in abusive relationships. You can look at them as weak, or foolish and i think some people even feel better about themselves, seeing others make poor choices. But if you can’t understand why people stay in abusive relationships, if you can’t understand why people don’t just leave and start a new life somewhere....then consider yourself lucky . 

Because it doesn’t feel good, knowing why. 

[with-love-anu]

Thapad se dar nahi lagta saheb, results se lagta hai

[pinnacle-pixel]

I have the urge to kill my neighbours I am hearing the song 'ishq wala love' for fucking 6th time, if they don't stop i will give them thapad wala slap!

[studioalegrar]

Client - Vikram Thapad Type - Row-houses Built-up - 1390 sq.ft Location - Pusad District No.of Floors - G + 1 Status-Upcoming