#straight to demisexual to biromantic to demiromantic to cupioromantic to aroace to me

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So a few months ago I decided to make a list of genders and sexualities

Here it's under the cut. Please tell me what to add!

Lesbian/Libidoist Asexual/Lithosexual/Lithromantic/Libragender

Gay/Genderfluid/Genderflux/Graysexual/Gynosexual/Gynoromantic/Genderqueer/Gender Nonconforming/Gender Neutral/Gender Diverse/Gender Gifted/Genderfae/Genderless/Graygender/Gemigender/Genderblank/Genderflow/Genderfuzz/Gender Witched/Girlflux/Grayromantic/Gynesexual/Gyneromantic/Glassgender/Glimragender/Genderfaun

Bisexual/Bigender/Bakla/Bissu/Butch/Biogender/Blurgender/Boyflux/Bicurious/Biromantic/Butchfluid/Butchflux/Burstgender

Transgender/Two Spirited/Transexual/Travesti/Trigender/Tumtum/Turbogender/Tragender

Queer/Questioning/Quoigender/Quadgender

Intersex/Intergender/Ipso Gender/Imperigender

Aromantic/Asexual/Agender/Abrosexual/Abromantic/Autosexual/Androsexual/Andromantic/Androgynous/Ambigender/Aporagender/Autigender/Abimegender/Adamasgender/Aerogender/Aesthetigender/Affectugender/Agenderflux/Alexigender/Aliusgender/Amaregender/Ambonec/Amicagender/Androgyne/Anesigender/Angenital/Anogender/Anongender/Antegender/Anxiegender/Apagender/Apconsugender/Astergender/Astral.Gender/Autogender/Axigender/Allosexual/Autoromantic/Aroace/Aroflux/Aceflux/Allosexual/Alloromantic/Allotroposexual/Allotroposexual/Alloromantic/Allosexual/Autoromantic/Akoisexual/Aliusgender/Amaregender/Aegosexual

Polysexual/Polyromantic/Pansexual/Pangender/Polygender/Polyamorous/Polygamy/Panromantic/Pomosexual/Pomoromantic/Paragender/Perigender/Proxvir

Omnisexual/Omnigender/Omniromantic /Oneiragender

Demigender/Demisexual/Demiflux/Dualgender/Deliciagender/Demifluid/Domgender/Duragender/Demiromantic

Nonbinary/Nuerogender/Neutrois/Neptunic/Ninsexual/Ninromantic/Nanogender

Homoflexible/Heteroflexible/Hijra/Homosexual/Homoromantic/Heterosexual/Heteromantic

Calabai/Calalai/Caelgender/Cassgender/Cassflux/Cavusgender/Cendgender/Cloudgender/Collgender/Colorgender/Condigender/Cupiosexual/Cupioromantic/Ceterosexual/Ceteromantic/Ceterofluid/Ceterogender/Commongender/Cisgender/Cisgender

Eunuch/Egogender/Esspigender/Exgender/Existigender/Epicine

Fa'afafine/Femme/Femfluid/Femgender/Fluidflux/Finsexual/Finromantic/Femflux

Kathoey

Māhū/Maverique/Metagender/Multigender/Muxe/Mirrorgender/Monosexual/Monoromantic/Minsexual/Minromantic/Multisexual/Multiromantic/Magnoxgender/Magigender/Mascfluid/Mascgender/Molligender

Sekhet/Stem/Sapiosexual/Sapioromantic/Skoliosexual/Skolioromantic/Spectrasexual/Spectraromantic/Sapphic/Satturnic/Subgender/Surgender/Systemgender/Straight

Vakasalewalewa/Vapogender/Venngender/Verangender/Vibragender/Voicigender

Waria/Winkte

X-gender/Xenogender

Uranic

Reciprosexual/Recipromantic

Healgender/Heliogender/Hemigender/Horogender/Hydrogender

Jaxura

[demibkdkstan]

*** Long Post ***

Sometimes I envy those who automatically are able to understand and identify their sexuality, like gay men who have always had crushes on fellow guys from childhood, or lesbians who looked at the pretty girl at the playground and wanted to kiss her, because for me every step of my sexuality has been due to honest curiosity of how something works and research.

Like I started out thinking I was straight and simply did not develop crushes much on people. Then I got into a relationship with a man and I got to have sex, I got to experience romance with this beautiful person who just goddamn listened to me, truly listened unlike most of the other people in my life.

But I got to a point where I didn't understand why we always ended up having sex. I had points where I'd look at this beautiful, wonderful man and I wouldn't find anything physically attractive about him despite wanting to have sex with him. I got to the point where I didn't understand why we couldn't just kiss. I got to the point where I had satisfied my curiosity about what sex was and so didn't have much of an interest in repeating the same experiment over and over and over again.

It wasn't until I read stories that had demisexual characters, stories where I realized that an Ace person isn't just someone who doesn't sleep with people, isn't someone who just never finds someone attractive, isn't an emotionless, non sexual robot, and I got it. This label made sense, this label explained parts of me that were so natural to me.

Then the more and more I read I realized, if I can have sex and a relationship with a man despite not finding anything other than the bond we have sexually attractive, what is the difference between thinking the girl with green hair at the store is pretty and not wanting to kiss her from the guy jogging without a shirt on that sure is nice to look at but also doesn't make me want to kiss him.

I'd never stopped to consider females as a potential interest of mine because despite having dreams about kissing my best girl friend (the space is intentional) I didn't automatically want to sleep with all the girls around me, so those were obviously just dreams and not my sexual attraction.

Some soul searching and more research later I realized I am Biromantic, I've just never allowed or looked for the emotional bond I'd need to develop with other girls before because since I so infrequently got crushes or even cared about dating and no one around me wanted me to consider girls as a dating interest it didn't seem like something that was even possible.

But I couldn't be Aromantic, because I had dated. I did have the desire to eventually get married and I knew what romantic attraction felt like -

Or I thought I did, until I dated my second boyfriend. He'd been a long time friend, he was a great guy, he had so many common interests, he was even a really, really sweet romantic! But I just, I never felt the spark. I could hug him, I could talk to him all day, I could have dates at museums and just have such a great time- but if you asked me if I wanted to kiss him, if you asked me if I wanted to marry this man, if you asked me if I ever felt the need to sleep with this man, the answer was no, it would always be no. Some of these things weren't even things I realized I was even feeling at the beginning of our relationship, but they were what eventually caused us to break up.

Cue my realization that I was somewhere on the Aromantic spectrum. More time spent looking up definitions and labels and reading others experiences and I realized, Demiaros exist too.

So now I have many labels, many sides and ways to express myself. I'm Aroace constantly but especially when I'm comfortable with my own existence. I'm Demisexual but Cupioromantic when I'm looking for a relationship. I'm Demiromantic if I'm just looking to hook up. I'm a Biromantic Ace if I'm looking for that special someone to bond with.

They're all me though, and I honestly love the variety. I love being able to describe myself in so many different ways. I love being able to share the knowledge, and the researching and the soul searching behind knowing this, but sometimes I envy the ability to just say I'm gay, and not need to explain, to yourself, or to anyone else what that means.

[ochqko-kinnie]

mha LGBT+ headcannons bc HAPPY PRIDE MONTH 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

deku is bicurious

uraraka is bi and a demigirl

bakugo and kirishima are both gay

bakugo is also a demiboy

kaminari is bisexual

jirou is bisexual and grayace

Momo is a lesbian and asexual

todoroki is biromantic and asexual

sero is pan and transmasc

mina is cupioromantic (Canon I think!!) this means she can't feel romantic attraction towards people but wishes she could fall in love, she is also transfem

asui is a loveless aroace, but still has strong platonic feelings for her friends, she just can't feel love towards others

iida is demisexual and demiromantic

tokoyami is bisexual and nonbinary, they use (he/they/it) pronouns

aoyama doesn't like to use labels for his sexuality, he's just aoyama <3

monoma is pansexual

shinso is bisexual

aizawa and present mic are gay and bi and married <3

toga is bisexual (canon!! :D)

magne is trans and uses she/her pronouns (also canon!! :D)

dabi is polyromantic and asexual

hawks is pansexual

shigaraki is aroace

Mirko is a lesbian

anyone not listed is a straight ally (probably) <3

remember that these are my personal headcannons, this is not meant to offend anybody and if you do find something offensive please let me know why so I can be educated and fix the problem

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

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disclaimer you can tell i've thought about some of these more than others >_<

sakuya: bisexual and questioning demiromantic (he's more likely to develop crushes on people he already knows but he's not entirely sure if that means anything yet)

masumi: greysexual/romantic. explains why his infatuation with izumi is so strong at first, because to him this had to be the real true love that everyone was talking about

tsuzuru: bi, but too emotionally repressed for a relationship

itaru: trans and gay. mained the boy mc in pokemon as teen and was never the same after

citron: pansexual

chikage: misogynist gay

tenma: gay and akoiromantic. wants to date and is frequently frustrated at the whole "losing attraction" thing

yuki: bisexual aromantic, romance neutral. also transmasc nonbinary with he/him pronouns (you gotta be at level 9 friendship to unlock the they/them pronouns. so far that's only muku and azuma.)

muku: trans gay and cupioromantic! worries a lot about not "falling in love" like those doki-doki manga scenes

misumi: quoiromantic ace and nonbinary. unlocked the "what the fuck is romantic attraction, what the fuck is gender" available only to nds (me? projecting? never.)

kazunari: super pansexual, like have you met this dude, jesus

kumon: recently discovered asexuality and has made so many terrible baseball puns

banri: so you've just discovered that you've been obsessing over this guy because you have a crush on him even though you thought you were straight for most of your life until now, a novel (bisexual)

juza: so this guy has been following you around and getting on your nerves but he's actually pretty cool when he wants to be and now you're starting to think he's kind of hot even though you'd rather die than admit it, the sequel (demisexual)

taichi: bisexual. unlocked gender feelings with zero and realized she was genderfluid too. wears sparkly barrettes in her hair on her more fem days

omi: gay and insistent that he's fine being single, no matter how much kazunari nags him into joining a mixer. his last relationship was nachi. he has some stuff to work through.

sakyo: biromantic graysexual

azami: aroace, romance-averse, sex-averse

tsumugi: trans and gay. tries to look out for the younger trans members and help them as much as he can. also everyone in winter troupe is polyamorous.

tasuku: gay

hisoka: questioning. he'll figure this out once he wakes up.

homare: bisexual. never thought much about gender but after talking to azuma realized he might be somewhere on the "not entirely cis" spectrum.

azuma: sex-neutral ace and agenderflux

guy: mostly in the same camp as hisoka but he's been awake so long it's starting to circle back. he only just accepted that he actually had feelings feelings, this is a whole different ball game.

izumi: trans and bi-oriented aroace. "it'd be nice to be in a relationship 🥺". cue everyone staring at the camera.

what if i made a thread of a3 lgbt headcanons like ppl are doing on twitter (except on here because i hate twitter)