#stop accusing authors of mistagging fics just because you're oh so sensitive and fragile

[chemdisaster]

think we need to bring back "if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all". because like, as much as that saying gets used by stuffy older relatives to shut up anyone who has an issue with anything they do, and as much as it's healthy to complain sometimes, i personally prefer to always try to find something positive about any given thing, and i've found that i'm happier for it. complaining is fun and all, but the way that people will go out of their way to nitpick every little detail, the way that they'll end up repeating all the same old things day in day out just sucks all the joy out of everything. like okay, we get it, you hate this thing - have you considered shutting up about it any time soon? or maybe instead of harping on about how much you hate it, go, "huh, i don't like this, but it's great that different people find joy in different things". it's not hard. or ask yourself if you do hate it at all, and are not just shitting on it over and over in an attempt to feel something in your pathetic, boring, miserable life.