#stone bottom

[nymphidiah]

Isn't me trusting you with my body enough of a testament that I love you?

[thuesdaynightdykelife]

Stone femmes, I love you.

Sex with you is whole and beautiful. Don't for one second think otherwise. Being with you isn't a sacrifice. It isn't some agreement to be okay with half an experience. It is an entire, beautiful, versatile experience in it's own right. Fulfilling, exciting, and pleasurable for the both of us. You are perfect, you are desirable, and you are anything but selfish.

The idea of stone bottoms not "giving", tsk! I have never heard of a stone bottom who doesn't "give" endlessly. Having boundaries around certain activities during sex doesn't change all of the wonderful, intimate acts of pleasure, love, and effort that stone bottoms can (and do) give, inside and outside of the bedroom.

I love you, stone bottoms! You are safety, you are home.

[kinkystims]

oh yeah it's totally fine to not want to have sex! and it's totally fine to want to have sex! but if you do have sex, you have to do it right, you know? so if you want to have sex, you better be a switch. and if you can't be a switch, you have to be a very specific kind of top/bottom. and if you're stone, you should die. it's okay to want sex but if you want sex with rigid boundaries then ABSOLUTELYYYYY NOT!!!

[feralfawne]

shoutout to the stone tops who’s partners have turned/tried to turn them into sex + kink dispensers

shoutout to the stone bottoms that have had/have partners treat them like sex toys without consent

shoutout to the stone tops that have had their lines crossed just because they wanted to be submissive instead of acting dominant and that was taken as them melting their stone

shoutout to the stone bottoms that draw the line at penetration

shoutout to the stone tops that have “weird” ways of wanting to be touched before, during and after

shoutout to the stone bottoms that always want to be in control, and to the stone bottoms that never want to take control

shoutout to the stone tops that never want to be in control, and to the stone tops that always want to be in control

shoutout to the stones who didn’t realise that a boundary would help them until later down the line

shoutout to the stones who know from the very start what they need from their sexual encounters

shoutout stones that have received unprecedented vitriol for the ways they choose to have sex

Your stones are beautiful and worthy of respect, no matter what. You are beautiful and worthy of respect. Your safety and enjoyment is important, no matter how you identify

To every stone top/stone bottom/pillow princess/service top; you are not wrong, you are not broken, you are no less lesbian, you should not have to break your boundaries to make someone else happy. Your need to be/not be fucked in any moment does not dictate your D/s lean, if you even have one

[femme-bat]

I'm in a delicate spot in my life and adding a new person would be tricky, but MAN I do want to fall in love so much. I want to be destroyed by a burning passion, I want to give my body and soul to a person who's worthy, and hopefully they'll take care of it like it's the most beautiful treasure in this planet. I want to make sweet love that doesn't break my boundaries and is pleasurable for us both, I want to fuck desperate and raw, I want to have my body worshiped. I know I won't die alone and great love is on the way, and I'm longing and hoping and yearning everyday for it.

[highfemmealbertano]

Being high femme or stone butch really makes you realize how little people actually care about consent and boundaries in sex

[kassandras-one-braincell]

I need a lil break from the internet because I swear there are some lesbians who care more about stone sex than stone lesbians. They're obsessed with us, and fucking vocal about it. Like mate we're clearly not fishing in the same sea, you might fancy getting a hobby that isn't calling pillow princesses "straight" or stone tops "broken". It's just depressing. Having boundaries shouldn't be taboo

[porcelain-sexdoll]

starting my weekend ❤️

[beddesth]

serving stardew valley farmer

[kinkystims]

in my feelings about being a stone bottom again

thinking a lot about how being stone is such an important part of my sexuality and how unaccepted being stone (as a top or a bottom) is in wider society. like having rigid boundaries for how you let others engage with your body and how you engage with others is seen as something wrong

i feel a lot of validation and affirmation when talking to other people who are stone, but there is so much negative rhetoric about it that sometimes it feels hard to push past

not everyone is gonna enjoy having sex with a pillow princess/stone bottom and i understand that (and i also don't want to have sex with someone like that), but it's less about people desiring me/people like me and more about people just... being kind about it yk?

so much of it is seen as selfish and there are a lot of negative connotations people have about pillow princesses and i see it being used as an insult a lot and it's very hard for me to feel comfortable in my sexuality with folks who aren't stone and to not feel like people are looking down at me

i have enjoyed sex with people who aren't stone before, but there is a lot of lingering doubt and insecurity about it for me

i feel proud of myself for knowing my boundaries and not putting myself in situations i don't want to be in. i'm very glad i've stopped comptopping for people anymore and focus more on compatibility over forcing myself in to being compatible for people. definitely an ongoing journey of acceptance though especially with outside responses to it

i definitely think it helps to have relationships that affirm your stone sexuality. it can be a really powerful and validating experience to find that safety and acceptance and desire for you and your sexuality

i think that's been a hard part of it for me personally because the external affirmation i get doesn't... necessarily outweigh the external derogatory shit i see? it's not a constant in my life and i think i'd be able to feel more confident in it if it was

it's hard because......... i don't want my self worth to be dependent on a relationship with another person. but i also do want to have that trust and affirmation in the form of other relationships with people. it's hard to figure out what that balance should be between letting yourself be loved and having a need to be loved/a need for affirming relationships vs your self worth being completely contingent on other people's relationships to you

i definitely think affirmation is very important for anyone, i just personally get worried about relying on it too much. but we're human. we should all rely on each other and community care is a big facet of my life, but i think i struggle more with the idea of dependency when it comes to romance and sexuality

anyway. stone bottom musings.

[s4pphicyearning]

sometimes i feel bad that i dont switch but then i remember there are beautiful gorgeous handsome dashing sexy stone tops out there that will let me kiss their face and run around them like an excited lovesick puppy and play video games with and binge watch shows with and frolick in the fields with and pick flowers for and suddenly life is beautiful again

[iknowitsplasticlove]

hear me out: pervy stone top who cant go a day without playing with me. sneaking peeks at me while i change, stealing my panties after they get them soaked, making it obvious theyre looking up my skirt when i walk by 😵‍💫 hands almost instinctually moving under my clothes to grope me when im near them..im their little free use toy, why wouldnt they take advantage of that?

(this is abt sapphic sex men/minors dni)

[sugusatodyke]

Stone top stud reassuring their Stone bottom that there is nothing wrong with being a stone bottom. Telling them, "Don't be ashamed. You have no idea just how much I need you. I don't think I could survive without my precious pillow princess." they make sure to kiss down their angel's neck, kissing away any negative thoughts until their mind is replaced by how loved they are

[femmelily]

i think if i was in a princess femme x knight butch relationship i would be fixed

[nostalgic-hydrochloric-acid]

the urge to put my favorite lipstick on a butch and kiss them until they're delirious, and now we both have lipstick smeared on us

oops 😋

love kissing til all they can think about is pushing me down to make me stop teasing them 💕

~ men and minors DNI ~

[pinkfairyprincessfemme]

SAVE ME BUTCHES IN SUITS🙏🙏🙏

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