aira-writes

[kittenfangirl20]

I am tired of Stella apologists saying that in the second episode of season 1 Stella was angry that Stolas cheated on her and Blitzø being an imp had nothing to do with it. She was constantly screaming about Stolas sleeping with an imp and that he was an embarrassment because of that. Stella being awful wasn’t a retcon, it was always part of her character, the second season made it more obvious. In that episode Stolas even struggles to say how terrible Stella was.

[certifiablyinsanez]

Honestly, when it comes to being a fan of the Hellverse, you will inevitably come across some grossness from the fandom. But seriously, no one in the fandom makes me GAG more than Stella apologists. No seriously, it’s disgusting. Because it would be one thing if you liked her for how evil she is, or think she’s hot. But some of yall will genuinely DEFEND her, because “she’s also a victim.”

The age of media literacy is dead, because do you not hear yourselves??? Stolas and Stella were both victims in the sense that they were both forced into this marriage. But that is where we draw the line.

“She was only ever meant to be a bride and mother against her will!” Yes, and Stolas was equally victimized by the arrangement. I need yall to understand that Stella is a bird and even says “I’m glad one egg fell out of me” (while publically shit talking Stolas btw). It is not hard for birds to lay eggs. It is not the same as a human pregnancy nor should it be equated as such. She throws parties to humiliate Stolas, physically and verbally abuses him in front of their daughter and their guests, likely is manipulating her daughter for her own personal gain, does not care that he disassociates during sex. The list literally goes on and on about how horrible this wench is, while Stolas did everything he could for 17 YEARS to make them comfortable and even hides his abuse to save face.

That fact that I saw someone genuinely make the comment that Stella should hit Stolas and that Stolas deserves it is past the point of heartbreaking and into the territory of pissed off.

Say it with me now. Stolas. Is. A. Victim. Of. Abuse. He represents a very real demographic of people. Maybe not obscenely rich, royal or magical, but is part of the demographic of male abuse victims that are belittled, dismissed and overlooked. Like, I can’t imagine being such a shitty person that when the stakes are low (Stolas not being real that is) you still fail the test of basic human decency. Fucking embarrassing.