#stay in your goddamn lane this is so fucking depressing and infuriating im already at my rock fcukgin bottom right now | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

autisticstarseed · 8 years ago

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“hey i may be an aphobe but i never said it wasnt a VALID IDENTITY” mbuddy [leans in] if you believe aro or ace counts as a Hetero Point on someones Orientation Card, that being cishet cancels out the fact that theyre ace and that its the same as being heterosexual, or that ace is interchangable with straight [whispers] you dont believe asexuality is valid

#d//on'/t r/e/b//lo/g/#ace discourse // / // // / / // / / / im having such a bad day lmfaog #i cant even go into the ace positivity tag without seeing bullshit like #yall forced us to make a community for ourselves and you are infiltrating it to drop your bullshit discourse #and constantly stealing our content to mock it! the content we had to make for ourselves cuz god knows yall were gonna do it #stay in your goddamn lane this is so fucking depressing and infuriating im already at my rock fcukgin bottom right now #i dont need invalidation on top of it all #im not a discourse machine #my identity isnt controversial #and doesnt have to be constantly questioned #i dont need to feel guilty for wanting a place in the community that ive trusted since i found out i was panromantic in middle school #and dont you dare feed me that 'well if you're pan its ok!' bullshit #me being pan doesnt cancel out some mythical imagined straightness that comes with being ace #im not '''''half straight'''''' because im ace so stop fucking treating me like i am. im full lgbt+. this is my identity and i belong here #leave me the fuck alone and realize you have gone completely off the deep end into radicalism and you're on tier with TERFs #because the only other time ive felt as excluded and broken and mocked as this #was when i found out i was trans/nb!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#and it feels eerily close to bi/panphobic rhetoric too so again dont you dare come at me and say some faux offended shit like #'dont compare ME a CERTIFIED LGBT+++ to a straightie' because im not bitch!! im comparing you to an ace person!!#im comparing my OWN lgbt+ identities to my asexuality!!!#thats not the same thing!! as straight!!!#stay!! in your fucking!! lane!! im pan ace and trans i think i have the right to tell you that using those same recycled arguments hurts #give us a second to fucking breathe #[griffin mcelroy voice] JE-SUSZZZuh #original #boostacevoices

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