#ss: badly hiding my daddy issues

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Mixed f/os here

(I deleted "baby" from the second catagory bc I wanted to put platonic there lol)

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I need to stop filling these. BUT IT IS TEMPTING. Thanks OP for the meme <3

Also I know Ray is my dad but I literally can't resisit yeeting him into any and all "You crying makes me cry" things.

New Self-Ship meme thing I made. How would your f/o react to you telling them that you had a bad day? Feel free to reblog or repost with your f/os! (I’m gonna be making one with mine real soon -w-)

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had a nightmare about my dad being a jackass and i didn't even realize it wasn't a dream until I woke up and all I can say is that Ray would NEVER

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3, 14, and 19? -Star / @twinkletoes-insert

thanks Star!

@twinkletoes-insert

3. Most likely to pull an all nighter with me is Lydia! She's like the entire reason my s/i Griffin didn't fail algebra 2 bless her.

14. Likely to eat food off my plate is Naruto 100%. My son will eat all the ramen in the house and then eat mine out of my bowl 🤣 I love him so much and could never get mad at him for it hes too passionate about ramen.

19. Most likely to take me on a road trip. Maybe my uncle Nate! dad!Ray would be so mad lol. A road trip through time on the jump ship.

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FALL !!!! I never send u asks and that's literally illegal so !!! I wanna hear more abt u and ray !! what's having him as a dad like ?? :)

QUILL!!!!!!!!!! Welcome to my ask box it is very chaotic here.

I LOVE TALKING ABOUT RAY THANK YOU FOR ASKING

Where do I start!!!! Okay I was living with the Legends from when I was around 11/12 until I was in my 20s so I'm super close with dad. He and uncle Nate mostly raised me. By that I mean dad raised me and occasionally Nate would be left alone with me and would call Sara panicked if he didn't know what to do. (Which was often, but I love uncle Nate and Sara!!) mainly though, Ray is THE BEST DAD.

Every day he used to help me write town three things I was good at on my bathroom mirror with a dry erase marker so I had to look at it every time I came back to my room. (Not really on topic but I do that with William now because dad did that with me)

and we spent a lot of time watching movies and reading books (sometimes with unle Nate), whenever I go back. He'll just call me in the middle of the day if he just thinks of me or if he gets really excited about something.

When I first decided to stay in the past with my husband(who had no idea I even existed tbh, was a bit of a shock for both of them to learn each other's connection to me haha) dad would call me every day from the Waverider and ask me to tell him one good thing that happened that day, and then he would tell me how proud he was that I was following my own path and doing good.

Oh and I have a letter in my wallet that he wrote me when I was a kid about how I'm going to do everything I want to do one day and he can't wait to see it. Sometimes I call him in the middle of the day while my son is at school and it makes his entire day that I still make time for him eventhough I have a family of my own now.

Extra: Whenever 2020 Ray and my dad run into each other at events they yell "PARADOX" and run in opposite directions of each other no matter what's in their way. 2020 Ray literally puts his fingers in his ears and sings Good Morning from Singing in The Rain when Oliver talks about me.

(no matter how much Gideon assures them minor interactions won't affect the timeline.)

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{dad/familial f/o in tags}

Who else here is feeling SOFT for being PICKED UP GENTLY and CARRIED by their f/o???

Like, no matter the circumstance.

If they notice I'm feeling tired? UP

If I get hurt and am limping? NO MORE WALKING ALLOWED

They just feel like being close to me? INTO THE ARMS

THERE IS NO BAD TIME TO BE SWEPT OFF MY FEET AND BE HELD LOVINGLY 💕

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2, 8, 9, 10, 29 and 34! ~lyell

Thank you!!!

2. Ollie (: he would drag Matty out of bed at dawn for breakfast all the time before William came to live with them. Now we all have breakfast together but a little after sunrise 😂

8. That is a large majority of them. I'm gonna say Clork because he's the least likely to lose 😂 Because we ALL know Tommy would step up and get wrecked in two minutes.

9. Tommy hands down. He and Johny have been banned from so many places together over the years.

But also I'm sure my nephew Peter has been kicked out of loads of places too haha and Naruto!!!

10. ... Oliver. He's gotten into a LOT of legal trouble lol.

29. RAY MY FATHER THE SOFTEST GIANT IN THE WORLD I WOULD DIE FOR HIS HUGS. I LOVE HIM.

34. I'm gonna go with Finn because I feel like he would have to be drunk the first time.

@withlovefromlyell

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Thank you @self-ship-sailed for the meme!!

I did my platonic and kid f/os for this because most of my romantic f/os and my fictional zucchinis don't really fit here. (Wrote in child names bc I wanted to seperate them from the adults + I feel weird about thorwing young actor's faces around excessively, and I know that Jack who plays William is like 16 rn, idk about young Nora D's actress or Frankie's actress but they seem close to accurately young.) Ollie might throw the knife across the room if he was surprised but I mostly feel like he'd be calm while patching me up. Caitlin I can't fit on here either, and I think Thea would just realise it was this minor lol and be chill about it. I think Ralph would scream too but I don't have room for that hahah. I missed a couple people but wow this was a LOT.

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[Matthew - mistaken for dating Nate]

Whenever a movie comes out I call Nate and make him come see it with me and then we have diner and write 6 page oral essays to each other about the movies and that's great and all until I call 2020 Nate instead of future Nate because he's in town and someone mistakes us as a date and we both reflexively tell the woman taking our order at dinner that this dude nearly my age is not my date but he is my uncle.

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Not exactly the same but dad (Ray) always puts his hand on my head and asks "What's going on, buddy?" and I always just 😢

Imagine your f/o gingerly touching your face and asking if you’re okay because they see on your face an expression of distress that they know all too well. They can tell that terrible thoughts are going through your head, but those thoughts fade into background noise as your f/o tries to comfort you. 

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2, 4, 6, and 16 !! for the pride asks !! for bobby? ;) ( or someone else if you prefer ... ! ♡ ) ~ lyell

Thank you for enabling me!!! I love you @withlovefromlyell !!!!!

2. Did you come out to them? How did it go?

Yeah! I came out to Bobby shortly after we met. [I arrived with Logan and tinie Rogue] It went super well actually. He was really supportive. I'll get into that more on another post!

4. How did you celebrate pride together?

We go to PRIDE! We go every year that a mission doesn't get in the way and we take any tinie's at the mansion who wanna go too. We're the gay dads of the mansion. I paint [and kiss] Bobby's face and he does mine.

6. Do you own any pride merch? Have you made any yourself?

I'm very visible irl but I think Bobby and I are more subtle. When he came out I had Hank help me make him a little tiny bi flag patch for the collar of his suit.

15. Have you or your F/Os held a coming out party?

Me and Bobby haven't but I think I would have one with my Waverider parents dad Ray, aunt and uncle sara & nate! There would be cake and everything [made by Rip of course]

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[Matty - crossover]

Oliver: Okay, so does everyone understand the plan?

Felicity: We lost your husband.

Oliver: Matty. Matty. Matthew.

Matty: We've discussed this if you want to talk you have to put a shirt on.

Ray: This is my son? THIS is little matty?

Nate: *steels up*

Sara: All of you stop right now.

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I know I wrote this as an offhanded joke but now I want it to be a running gag in Matty's life that uncle Nate just steels up whenever he sees Ollie holding hands with me or just in general.

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[Matthew - Not Mick Friendly - transphobia TW]

One of the reasons I stayed in 2020 was because Mick got more trasphobic in his old age instead of better, and it was getting really hard for dad(Ray) to fight with him and I hated it because it made him so unhappy and angry that his friends would say stuff like that to me and in general.

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RAY PALMER FROM DC'S LEGENDS OF TOMORROW AND LUKE DANE'S ARE MY PARENTS.

Also Mathra and Jonathan Kent are my inlaws :3

I have one other father in law but he's evil and we don't talk about him.

Parental F/O’s are Awesome & Underrated

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Bonus: GIVE YOUR PARENTAL F/OS SHOUTOUTS IN THE TAGS / COMMENTS.

I’d love to see which parents people have in common with each other. So you know the found family gets bigger I guess.