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just watched Nimona and can I just say it's *chef's kiss*. the clear queerness of Ballister and Ambrosious from the very beginning, no hiding it or hinting that it exists, and how they navigate their relationship throughout the course of the narrative. struggling to trust one another and questioning what they mean to each other while being pitted against each other by the system. the trans/nonbinary interpretation of Nimona (whether intentional or not) and how (like trans/nonbinary/queer people) she just wants to live her life but everyone else can only see her as a monster, society twisting and shaping history to benefit everyone else and convincing everyone that She is the one to fear. and also the way that her rage is shown! her rage and anger are real and justified, and it almost becomes a vicious cycle where people are scared of her because of her destruction, but she causes havoc because she's angry that people are afraid of her no matter how hard she tries to be good, so then she plays into that role and decides that if people view her as a monster and that's all they see her as, she might as well be the scariest monster out there and give them a reason to be scared. and breaking that cycle is sooo hard but sometimes all you need is one other person to look at you and believe that you're a good person. and the art and animation are phenomenal! so many little details, like the way her eyes catch the light and you can see fire reflected in them. the whole thing is just so good
#nimona#spoilers#loved this movie sooo much im going to have to watch it a couple more times#we love an inherently queer film that touches on so many different intricacies#queer#transgender#nonbinary#sqyd speaks
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does anyone have the I SEEN IT WITH MY EYEBALLS death grips audio post which includes a really fuckered up lookin dog picture... it'll sound less wtf when i find it i promise
#HELL YEA#COURTESY OF SQYD#see i told u it wasnt too fuckered up as i described it#i feel like i sound like this post when i speak#gripsposting
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been wanting to dip my toes into paganism for a couple months and decided to celebrate Samhain today! still not really sure how I want paganism to look for me and I think just a little here or there is good for now, so today I focused on just being mindful, grounded, and thankful for the life around me. started with lighting some candles and then used a small pumpkin gifted by a friend to bake muffins, roasted the seeds, and fed the pulp to our dogs who absolutely loved it. i also made some cider with the last of our apples and oranges and then spent some time knitting with the dogs. overall just a peaceful day full of purpose. it's been a rough couple of months, and the last week in particular hasn't been the greatest, so having a day to celebrate life and find purpose (even if just for a day) feels really nice and motivating. and what better day to lift the spirits than when the wheel of the year has finished its cycle and is about to start the next one
#sqyd speaks#samhain#halloween#been a wild year and there's a lot of reflecting i want to do on it. here's to the next cycle
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Further thoughts:
Polyester, nylon etc are plastics. They don't breathe or wick away moisture well. Don't choose them for summer projects, especially not if you're prone to sweating and overheating.
Lighterweight breezy wovens are better in hot weather than skintight knits. Try switching from T-shirts and tank tops to natural fibre blouses / shirts, and thank me later. 😁
Personally, my sensory issues are precisely with the plastics (atopic ecsema, my skin is sensitive to their plastickyness). Usually they don't feel softer to me unless it's actually a plush fabric. Microfibre, rather than just polyester, and even then I'm obliged to be ashamed to say real fur feels better to me. Flipping and feeling through satin or gauzy garments in a thrift shop, I would always inevitably land on the rare actually silk one, or a rayon one. So it's not a universal truth that polyester's better for sensory reasons. Just like a cotton gauze and a cotton canvas are two very different things... fibre content does not tell you everything in this way. "Use fabrics you like" is the one universal truth when it comes to sensory issues! And another very good reason to shop in local shops or thrift shops, if you have access to any.
Also, because they're not good at breathing and wicking away moisture, the plastics are equally not great for really keeping you warm in cold weather, again, especially if you're prone to sweating. Speaking from personal experience here - they just make me warm and sweaty quickly, and then, being sweaty with my sweat trapped against my body, I quickly get cold again instead.
Wool is unbeatable in the cold. It's unfortunately pricey, but blends that are about 75-80% wool are a bit more affordable I think, and should still do the job wool is great at. (I actually have this experience with yarn and a RTW sweater and "pashmina" more than fabric, so, sorry, this is a bit of guesswork. The absolute best pashmina I have - lightweight yet amazingly warm - is one actually made of cashmere and silk, but that one was a gift. 😅)
Linen is unbeatable when it comes to being pleasant in summer. It tends to be rather stiff when new and slowly soften with wear and laundering. You can buy linen blends with viscose/rayon, which are (I think?) more afforable, soft and drapey right from the start, a bit less prone to wrinkling like there's no tomorrow, and still feel great.
I live in metric land. We don't use oz/sqyd, we use g/m2. And we don't shorten it to the weight unit only. For reference, I think quilting / craft cottons are somewhere in the 115-140 g/m2 range. Cotton twill in 160 g/m2 is the lighterweight version used for scrubs; for a more hardwearing version definitely go above c. 240 g/m2. - I'm currently a bit confused by "4 oz denim". 160 g/m2 is 4,7 oz and I wouldn't really call that a denim; plain old 4 oz is c. 135 g/m2, which is in plain old quilting cotton range, and I'd seriously hesitate to call a cotton twill in this weight anything approaching "denim". Having tried the conversions from oz, I'm... honestly baffled as to why it remains in use like this because it's a much larger unit than grams, and therefore must be quite clunky for differentiating between weights. Especially at the lower end, in lighterweight fabrics, I feel like it's all the decimal points that get left off that make all the difference.
Also, the reason silk uses different units may have something to do with the fact different fibres behave differently at the same weight, so it's not always the weight itself that tells you what to expect. Some fibres are "heavier", others are "lighter". Silk is a particularly lightweight fibre, so fabrics with a certain "hand" will be lighter than they would be in, say, cotton.
From all of the above, my personal rule of thumb for online fabric shopping is: rely on e-shops that tell you as many of the technical details as possible (exact fibre content in percentages, weight, preferably also specific weave / fabric type), rather than ones that just wax poetical about the fabric's properties. (The usual suspect is the word "silky", heh. That hides a multitude of sins.) The former know what they're doing, the latter are just trying to sell you something and may not be telling the full truth.
How to choose fabrics for projects (a list of advice and comments)
-Use your project to judge what fabric you want to use! For instance, if you are making a summer shirt you should use a lighter material that has a texture like sheeting rather than flannel or wool. If your pattern plans for stuff cut on a bias (sideways across the fabric), take that into account when you choose the fabric!
-A lot of formal from-store patterns will suggest appropriate fabric types for that pattern. Consider their advice, but feel free to discard it if you find a fabric you like better that will still work. (Just make sure that the fabric will work! You don’t want to end up with the equivalent of a swimsuit made of flannel!)
-Thick (like fleece), heavy (like heavy denim or canvas), very stretchy (like t-shirt jersey), or slippery (like polyester) fabrics are harder to work with. It doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t use them, but you might want to get a little experience before you tackle them.
-Choose fabrics that you can wash, and wash them before you use them! Hanging to dry in a steamy bathroom will help a lot with wrinkles if you don’t have an iron.
-Poly-fleece aside, choose fabrics that do NOT have polyester or other synthetics in them, in many cases the polyester is being used as a filler. For instance, if you are making a shirt, look for your chosen weave (flannel, medium weights, twill ect) as 100% cotton, linen or even hemp.
Polyester (and acrylic) are awesome materials - they make wrinkles fall out better and make fabrics softer. And if you have sensory issues, you might decide that you want the blend or something pure polyester! BUT polyester blends will tend to wear out faster.
(What I am trying to say is: choose the content of your fabric with intention and care.)
-Most fabric thickness is measured in oz/square yard. 2.6 oz/sqyd is the thinnest non-fuzzy fabric considered safe to wear or use in stuff like drapes without adding a fire retardant (thinner fabric is a fire hazard). Some fabric mixes are considered safe too, you can look up the standards pretty easily if you are worried. (Just be aware if your life needs to include a light gauze nighty!)
-Heavier fabrics will last longer before the fabric starts to disintegrate. For instance, a 4 oz denim will be lighter and more flexible, but wear through much faster than a 10 or 12 oz denim. (10-12 oz is the typical weight for older jeans, 5 oz jersey is a heavy t-shirt, most cotton sheeting is about 4 oz, plush sweatshirt knits can be 14-20 oz.)
-Silk is weird, its measured in “momme” (mm).
-If you can, support locally owned fabric shops! They tend to have a better quality of fabric and people more knowledgeable if you need to ask questions.
-Look for deals! Thrift stores will often have both clothing and bedding you can pick apart and yardage from closed stores and people’s stashes. Fabric stores will often have remnant piles and stuff (colors and patterns) that are discontinued. By nature of my job I buy fabric by the bolt in plain white and then dye it - that is always also a possibility, too.
Most importantly:
CHOOSE FABRIC YOU LIKE - Remember, you have to live with and like your completed project!
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feeling the Eldest Daughter Syndrome™ a bit lately plus other ✨ emotions ✨ so this is a little rambly, venty post about that.
(tw's for some very brief mentions of depression and anxiety)
I want to be a kid again. When was the last time I was a kid? carefree? was I ever a kid? in elementary school I was the "gifted kid", the "mature" one, always put on a pedestal as the example for my brothers. always used as a comparison. my parents asking "why can't your brothers be more like you?" what they saw was a daughter with straight A's while a leader on their robotics team, a successful athlete, and balancing other clubs. this is what they saw up through college, 8+ years of this. 8-12 fucking years. over half my life. what they didn't see was how much that broke me. they never saw that I would wake up at 4:30 in the morning (a habit started in fourth grade) in order to do my homework. because I a) couldn't focus after school due to likely having undiagnosed adhd, and b) was so exhausted. by the end of high school, my typical routine was: up between 5-6, do homework, go to school from 7-2:30, go to cross country/track/robotics from 3-5, and then would often stay till 6 or 7 doing extra testing or drive practice for robotics, go home to eat and do dishes and maybe attempt more homework before passing out at midnight. my entire life revolved around school and extracurriculars, never proper time for friends. a similar story through college. they didn't see how much of myself was lost after pouring it into college. the burnout that resulted. they never saw the panic attacks or breakdowns, how bad my mental health declined, the nights crying myself to sleep because everything was so overwhelming and because I would be a disappointment if I didn't perform to the expectations set for me. because the one time I did tell my mom that I felt depressed, she invalidated my feelings and said that maybe I was just anxious and should just try eating better. because later that summer, after a camping trip with friends, she told me that "being depressed isn't an excuse and you need to suck it up" because I didn't engage "properly" and "wasn't having fun" with everyone. I can't show negative emotions without consequences. I must always be happy. I must always be on my best behavior. I must be the role model. perfect. always perfect. no mistakes. If I fail, no, if /I'm/ a failure all Hell breaks loose. I'm an awful daughter (where did my mom go wrong? what did she do to deserve this?). if I do something wrong or make a mistake then I'm terrible. if my brothers make a mistake or forget to do something, it's my fault for not reminding them (even though one is almost 20). all outrage, all emotions are directed to me. through me. I will never have the peace after a hurricane. if my parents are able to calmly talk to my brother about a task or something he did wrong, it's likely because they have no rage left after using it on me, leaving me a sobbing mess. I will always take the blame, whether by choice or not. will take the brunt of the force, protecting my brothers without them knowing. they will never know. defending my youngest brother before my mom can yell at him (her form of communication. she wonders why my brothers and I have a hard time properly communicating with each other. I don't). being his parent for 12 years so he actually has one. so he can experience kindness and compassion. so he actually has someone who understands what he's dealing with with his adhd and doesn't just dismiss him or yell at him because of the way his symptoms present. trying to re-parent myself in the process. being scared of myself whenever I become my parents. trying to rid myself of them. of their anger. of their disappointment. of all of it. will I ever be rid of it? will I ever be just me? how long will their rage consume me? have I already been consumed? when did they corrupt me? I want to be a kid again. was I ever a kid? can one be a kid if they are their own parent? I will always be the parent, the therapist. the one my parents and friends vent to. the one trying to fix everyone else. the one who needs fixing. I want to be fixed. I want to be loved. I don't want to be a parent anymore. I want to be a kid. I will never be a kid.
#if you managed to read through that uhhhhh thanks#just sharing my feelings in this little diary of a blog#sqyd speaks#eldest daughter syndrome
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Love
what a wondrous thing
known by many
understood by few
but what does it mean?
how does one Love?
is it the feeling of watching a sunset
or your dog curled up in your lap?
or is it cuddling your partner
after they woke up from a nap?
what about laughing with your best friend
until your tummies begin to hurt?
or taking time for yourself
to not be overworked?
there are infinite ways to Love
each incredibly unique
and no type of Love
is superior like they say
everyone feels Love
in many different ways
even if there is no good test
to identify which way
some say i can't feel Love
but i find that to be untrue
i have so much Love to give
that i must put it to use
i may not know what Love i have
but i certainly know i feel
i feel so much
sometimes too great
that at times my bursting heart
begins to ache
i hold onto my Love to give
keeping it safe out of fear
fear of revealing how much i hold
of letting my heart empty
what once was full is now gone
but something great about that is
that something empty can always be filled
replenished to continue giving
from now on i won't hoard my Love
i'll make sure everyone knows
knows how much i Love my friends
my family, dogs, and sunsets
how much i Love playing like a kid
how much i Love Love Love
i still don't know what Love i feel
but all that matters is that i feel
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i wish to take a meat tenderizer to my heart
to my lungs
pulling chunks off my brain
dicing, chopping, and slicing every organ
every tissue
marinating the pieces in my blood
in any other fluid this body contains
dumping everything into one large pot
large enough to make a stew
something hearty to feed the souls of others
to warm their own bodies
to give them the strength to carry on
to finally put this body to use
#poetry#the voices#alexa play Body by Mother Mother#had very visceral feelings that had to get out#might draw something to go with. we'll see#sqyd speaks
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sitting down to draw will be like:
gets everything set up
space out for 30 minutes
put on a video for background noise
draws for 10 minutes
gets distracted by video
draws for 10 minutes
spaces out on phone
stares at drawing
thinks about biting one of the ten pencils I'm awkwardly holding in one hand
draws furiously for 5 minutes
*don't spill your drink, DON'T SPILL YOUR DRINK*
spaces out again
realize you haven't eaten or gone to the bathroom for several hours
rinse and repeat several times until satisfied with progress or until hands hurt
#drawing#sqyd speaks#makes a tumblr post instead of working on my drawing#my hand is currently like a pocket knife. i have so many pencils and a pencil sharpener#if i drop one(1) of these pencils i will cry
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