#spousey selfies

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Thanks for being officially mine (dating) for six (6) years now. You'll love me when I'm fuzzy, and I'll love you when you're cold, and we may or may not take selfies where we both look fancy. Trying new things is scary, but thanks for trying most of them (grocery store abominations, new coffeeshops, words in Italian, etc) with me. I can't think of all the words right now. I love you more, spousey.

[retro-rezz-the-est]

Happy Birthday my spousey!!!! ILY and I hope you enjoy the day and can’t wait to hype up your selfies 🥰🥰💖💖💖💖😘😘😘😘😘

Spouseyyyyyyy why you make me soft like this 🥺💓

[small-strong-bookish-butch]

N and I look so hot!! I can't believe we've been married for a year!!! 🩷🩵

[small-strong-bookish-butch]

My spousey is so cute and pretty 😍😍😍😍

[small-strong-bookish-butch]

Looking really fancy lately ✨

Image description: 4 selfies of a white person with short brown hair and big glasses, smiling at the camera, wearing a black mask and patterned button down shirts. In the first photo they are gesturing, and in the last photo they are with their spouse, a Black femme wearing big glasses, a tan tank top, and a jean jacket. /end description

[small-strong-bookish-butch]

5 years (and a couple days) later, here we are, still together, and now, gay-married!!! The Twin Cities Marathon only thwarted you once.

Thanks for showing up to the first date, and so many dates after: coffee shops, grocery stores, and even some things that wouldn't be considered a date, but we counted as one anyways. I can't wait to keep doing life with you, for like, ever, probably. Love you more.

[small-strong-bookish-butch]

Image description: 4 selfies of a white person with brown hair and glasses smiling at the camera, outside, wearing a blue button down and a green shirt and a black and rainbow hat in the first photo. The second photo is in an alley background and highlights their earring and scruffy beard. The last two photos are taken with a plus size Black person, who has an Afro and is wearing pink glasses and makeup and an orangey shirt, and the white person is cuddled towards them in both pictures with their eyes closed.

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[small-strong-bookish-butch]

Love of my life!!!! 😍

[small-strong-bookish-butch]

I love having a spousey who is so so pretty, and asks me if their eyeshadow is even in lighting where I certainly can't see both sides evenly, and sends me selfies where they look gorgeous specifically because I ask them to 😍😍😍

[small-strong-bookish-butch]

I want more people to be on tumblr :(

My spousey: is only rarely on tumblr; left at the Great Porn Ban Of 2018 and basically reblogs my selfies (very cute and gay of them, but I wish they were on here more)

My best friend: their likes are like 85% my blog posts (very sweet! But also. I've seen all that already lol)

My IRL-turned-long-distance friend: stopped posting after a mental health time (bad) and isn't very online anywhere

My other friends: left tumblr years ago and talk about it like it's dead, due to fandom or cringe or the porn ban or simply outgrowing it

My other online friends: post mostly aesthetic posts

Mutuals whose blogs I like: friend-shaped but I'm too Not A People Person to ever talk to most of them (at least without it being super awkward and me feeling bad), let alone continuing a conversation and eventually being friends

[small-strong-bookish-butch]

Clothes that inspire your partner to take you on a nice date 😘😘😘

(AKA “No, you gotta do the bunny ears higher. Okay, there you go”)

@tntcharmed

[small-strong-bookish-butch]

Happy Nicole-iversary, my love. It’s been 4 ~official~ years, and I can’t wait for the next, well, forever, with you. You’re beautiful, and kind, and funny, and you listen to my ridiculous puns and put up with my ‘normal’ sleeping hours. Thanks for knowing my Starbucks orders by heart; you’re my favorite date 5ever. Thanks for wanting to keep me around. 💕

[small-strong-bookish-butch]

Big fan of blue these days 💙

Image descriptions: 4 selfies of a white person with short brown hair and dark glasses. The 2nd and 4th photos are a close up in a blue and gray striped button down, the first photo is them smiling tiredly in front of bathroom stalls wearing a teal T shirt, and the 3rd photo is with a lightskinned Black person, both of them wearing informal clothes and smiling with teeth showing, looking at the camera in the daylight. /end description

[small-strong-bookish-butch]

I was tagged by @extraordinary-arbiter-bluebird to post 9 selfies from 2020! Now that that year is over, I’m finally posting this lol

I’m tagging @eclecticandpoetic, @tntcharmed, @rules-have-been-broken and anyone else who wants to do it!

[small-strong-bookish-butch]

👻

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Softness is underrated💕