#sorry not sorry you are not centered in those spaces and they arnt inherently transmysognistic either

[butch-bakugo]

First off, read the very last line of text at the very fucking bottom of my post and ask me that rhetorical question again.

Second off, I AM BISEXUAL. I AM NOT A LESBIAN. I identified as a lesbian for a fair portion of my life and I think a lot of us still hold the very lesbophobic and mysognistic belief that all lesbians are terfs/transphobes which is bigoted and bs. It speaks VOLUMES that you immediately assume anyone criticizing this weird expectation is a cis woman lesbian. You have a little lesbophobia you need to work on there, bud.

"can't assume good faith" My sister in Christ I am transfem. Shocker. I am acting in good faith towards my own fucking community.

Lastly, and finally, your entire blog is EXCLUSIVELY you fucking complaining and making weird assumptions about anyone who dares to mention the simple fact that Transmascs/trans men do not benefit from cis male privilege or mysogny and are infact affected by it. I'm sorry but in my store, your weird transphobic victim card is declined.

Please get a hobby that isn't harassing other trans people.

EDIT: I JUST FUCKING NOTICED I SAID I WAS BI IN THE POST ITSELF. LITTERALLY SAID, VER BATIM " IM NOT EVEN A LESBIAN, IM (A)BI". THIS DUMBASS DIDNT EVEN FUCKING READ IT THEY READ THE FIRST FUCKING SENTENCE AND WENT OFF LMAO GET OUT OF HERE

" you as a lesbian" Ah there it is... That lesbophobia just jumped out didn't it?

Quoting me and didn't even fucking read the whole thing, get out of here lol

You know what? Controversial opinion: expecting every single post that talks about not being attracted to men, hating men or otherwise talking about lesbianism/bisapphism/feminism to explicitly state somewhere that it's trans inclusive or they mean cis men when they are talking about men and not trans women is an entitled and lesbophobic/mysognistic expectation.

I said men. I mean men. Not trans women or else we would of fucking said trans women. The fact your first assumption on a post about lesbianism and not being attracted to men is to assume the op is terfy/transmysognistic is just a quieter and more entitled form of the lesbophobic shit that is "all lesbians are terfs and all terfs are lesbians" bullshit. Assuming lesbianism and feminism are inherently transmysognistic or have the inherent possibility of being transmysognistic is more of a self report and straight up mysogny than any actual potential bigotry on lesbian's and feminist's part. I'm not even a lesbian, I'm a bi manwoman and even I fucking know that.

Use some context clues or admit your mysognistic and expect women to constantly add a million disclaimers to their feminism that doesn't need to be there so you can defang it and middle the point with shit that's obvious and doesn't need to be stated. If you don't see any (ACTUAL) terf dog whistles or the op is LITTERALLY FUCKING TRANS, INCLUDING TRANSMASC, immediately assuming all sapphicness has a chance of being "terfy" is mysognistic and lesbophobic. It's a bigoted assumption.

Many would argue racism in the gay man community is SIGNIFICANTLY more common yet y'all do not expect every post about liking men, fighting toxic masculinity or not being attracted to women as a man to add a little disclaimer at the bottom that hes cool with poc. You only expect that of cis women and afab trans people. That's mysognistic and transandrophobic. They dont need anymore work. Let them talk about feminism without expecting a scrolling disclaimer at the bottom to comfort your weird guilt and pick me bullshit that she doesn't hate alllll men and she knows good ones are out there and she just means cis men not transmascs or transfems or any trans people and she's a girls girl. Bruh.

Leave her tf alone and let her say men. Let her pick the bear. Engage with feminism outside of Tumblr and terfs I'm FUCKING BEGGING YOUUUUUUU YOU THINK VAUINA ART IS A DOG WHISTLE YOU'VE LOST THE FUCKIN PLOT, MY GUY

- a transfem AND Transmasc intersex person. Fuck off with the allegations.