#sorry by the way for this i dont want real discourse anywhere near this blog because. again stupid anime blog i made for fun but i think its
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hysokaz · 4 years ago
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tw: transmisogyny/terfs
oh my god ive written this three times now so im just going to keep it curt someone called @ gender- fucks rb’d this post i made and i was like wtf cus i checked their profile and it was this
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so i was like what the hell and i messaged them cus i was confused
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at this point, i pretty much knew but they continued to bother me
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now i was still confused so i just tried one last time for them to be direct with me
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i really am stupid so i genuinely would not have been surprised if they werent a terf and i read it wrong, but theres no doubt about it writing this now 
heres a discord screenshot of my reaction 
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very clearly i was trying to stone wall them so they would leave me alone, but they continued to send me some of their posts 
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and other shit i dont want anyone else to see. i really did not want to engage anymore
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but they kept going and i kinda got mad and confessed some personal stuff i dont think is really appropriate to bring up rn. not really relevant to this either way, but basically, they wouldnt quit it
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like genuinely. i dont know if they realise that trans women dont want to date cis women who dont want to date them. and lesbians arent being told to kill themselves because of that if theyre getting backlash its because theyre calling transwomen pedophiles and predators for wanting to be who they are. sorry if i worded what i sent on that last thing up there weirdly, obviously transwomen are women and transwomen who like women are lesbians, all of that is obvious but i was pissed off that i genuinely had to explain dating preferences to this most likely adult. like, why are they talking to me about lesbians? im not a lesbian, this isnt my conversation to have, and i do not care.
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i will half give them that point, yeah i messaged them but the constant “ok”s and “what do you want me to do about it” and “i dont care” didnt tell them that i was done with the conversation?
and this was the last thing
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afterwards no more messages so they finally got it that i do not care or want to talk to them, and i did not continue to message them.
i shouldve handled some things better in this but genuinely i just asked one question and got thrown into a terf rabbithole when i never asked for it. i told them stop messaging me i dont care go to something else you wont change my mind i will not change yours go away, but they continued and it was a mess.
i feel responsible that i engaged in the first place, and since i couldnt find any posts mentioning this user, i guess ill make it. just block them and dont try to fight it wont go anywhere dont be stupid just dont do it. 
i dont know how to end this really so if you have the money then rb/give to some trans donations + if anyone wants to rb with like some carrds with info or donations and stuff then you should. please love trans people (transwomen in particular) more than you hate terfs.
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