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francisforever2014 · 1 year ago

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my friend with the awful older boyfriend called me today for the first time in a while and i asked how he was and she was just so unenthusiastic talking about him and i made a face and she was like. i just can’t go through a breakup rn. the way she lives is genuinely incomprehensible

#also she was talking about the people she’s ‘friends’ with in college #and apparently none of them even know she has a boyfriend??? and they’ve been dating for a year atp #and she’s like yeah we just don’t really talk about things .#like genuinely just so incomprehensible. how does a fact like that not come up in a friendship #sometimes i feel lonely and unconnected but fr i would rather feel this way #than have shallow connections with people like that #like she’s known these people since going to school and she doesn’t even like them. and they barely know her #but those are her closest friends #we’re just so different and it’s fine like i’m not saying she’s doing anything wrong #it’s just .. baffling #but also affirming bc sometimes i feel broken for not having as many friends #but then i remember what it’s like to have those shallow connections #and it just hurts me more than it gives me anything . so good to remember that #i can wait for the right people to come along #also back to the og post she needs to break up with him omg genuinely what 😭

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