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Hello! I would like to request a astrological pairing with Kim Namjoon. 03/11/2001 Columbus, Ohio 6:47 am

Disclaimer — All opinions are my own. My interpretation of Namjoon and his natal chart is just that: an interpretation. I do not know him, nor do I claim to know him or how he would act in real life. I am still learning about astrology and how to properly read a person's chart. If you believe I have misinterpreted a specific aspect, please know that all of this is all just for fun and entertainment's sake.

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Synastry readings are based on certain aspects of both people's birth charts. These aspects are how each of your planets angle against each other on your charts. Each aspect has a different degree of separation between them. There are five total aspects: 0° (conjunction), 60° (sextile), 90° (square), 120° (trine), and 180° (opposition). Each of these means different things.

In brief, conjunctions are the best to have in a synastry; they represent mutual understanding and blended energies from your planets. Sextiles are also good in high numbers, as they give happy and harmonious energy in a relationship. Squares are a stressor in a relationship, and you want fewer of those than conjunctions, but they can offer some push towards action and room to grow. Trines are also a good one to have so long as they don't surpass the number of conjunctions; they give positivity and good luck and can balance out an overabundance of squares. Oppositions can be tricky; sometimes opposites attract but the energies can be so foreign that they can cause major problems if in certain parts of your charts.

Now that we got that explanation out of the way, here's the breakdown of your synastry with Joonie. You have 4 conjunctions, 6 sextiles, 6 squares, 4 trines, and 4 opposites. In brief, this is kinda a tricky one as there are more squares than conjunctions, the same number of opposites as conjunctions, and not enough trines to compensate for the high number of squares. However, you have a higher number of sextiles, which is a good thing, and your conjunctions are extremely powerful in your chart! Out of all of these, the most important ones are explained below.

Namjoon's Sun (Virgo) opposites your Sun (Pisces)

This one is a doozy. The Sun sign is the most powerful in anyone's birth chart. To have two people's Sun signs in opposition can be the start of your problems. A lot of energy may be wasted on having to explain yourselves to each other. Misunderstandings can be frequent and draining. Even if your relationship starts out on good terms, over time it can turn disharmonious if you aren't careful. This is especially true if neither of you respects the other's life choices. I can definitely see this being an issue, as Joonie is an idol and his lifestyle can ask a lot of him. If there is no effort or compromise, the relationship will be very difficult. However, don't give up hope! While this Sun-Sun opposition can be challenging, this can be softened by other positive aspects in the charts.

Namjoon's Mercury (Libra) conjuncts your Moon (Libra)

This is a great thing for couples! This tells me that you and Namjoon have lots of interests and projects in common. But more than that, with the communication planet Mercury and emotional ruler Moon both in Libra--the sign of fairness and equality--the two of you understand each other very well. Sometimes it can seem as if you two read each other's minds, especially to those outside the relationship.

Namjoon's Moon (Sagittarius) sextiles your Moon (Libra)

You feel instinctively comfortable with each other and know how to comfort each other. There's a feeling of safety that you both have when around the other person. This can tie back to you both knowing how to interpret each other, understand each other, and translate silent communication. This is a peaceful aspect of your relationship, one that definitely balances out and subdues the negative aspects. Both of your Moons are in sync.

Namjoon's Moon (Sagittarius) conjuncts your Mars (Sagittarius)

Your relationship is filled with lots of physical passion. Sagittarius is a fiery and sensual sign, and with Namjoon's emotional Moon and your action-oriented Mars in conjunction, sex is never just sex. It's a way to express your powerful emotional bond. These placements bring excitement and energy to your lives. You both desire each other always and feel immense warmth due to this physical connection. I can promise you that this will never fade.

Namjoon's Mars (Cancer) squares your Moon (Libra)

However, that passion may lead to turbulent conflicts. A Cancerian Mars and Libra Moon can often have miscommunications and misunderstandings. These can lead to shows of passion, but those times might be focused on releasing emotional aggression onto each other. It's not makeup sex so much as it's releasing pent-up frustration. These instances may not end with healing; it may just come to an end with the root of the problem still intact.

Namjoon's Mars (Cancer) squares your Venus (Aries)

The love you have with Joonie, being particularly based on physical understanding, has both its ups and downs. It's passionate but has all the negative side effects: possessiveness, jealousy, aggressiveness. If your relationship does weather the storm, there can be a lot of hurt feelings and confrontations. Cancerian Mars needs a lot of reassurance and peaceful situations to be at ease; an Arian Venus can be a bit too upfront and spontaneous for the other's liking. The sexual attraction is strong in the beginning, but the disagreements often have a major impact on your sex life.

Namjoon's Moon (Sagittarius) conjuncts your Pluto (Sagittarius)

Again, the passion is there due to a fire sign holding both Joonie's Moon and your Pluto, and it can be uncontrollable and lacking thought. Jealousy and possessiveness also show up here, along with a need for the other's presence 24/7. Something that will help you and Namjoon greatly is building trust. When trust is in place, both of you will appreciate that your relationship is growth-oriented and far from a lifeless routine. Your feelings for each have evolved and will continue to evolve over time. You learn from each other on an emotional and mental level. Your experiences together, both good and bad, have helped you level-up. This fact is a treasure. It may take time, but you both will see that the love you have is transformative. Sometime down the road, when things have settled down, you will look back and see that you've become newer, better people through your relationship.

Namjoon's Mercury (Libra) sextiles your Mars (Sagittarius)

Part of that growth is in the area of creativity. Namjoon's communicative Libra Mercury and your expressive Sagittarian Mars are a perfect match for creative ventures. They stimulate each other to be more thought-provoking and forward-thinking. You both learn a great deal from each other. More than just creativity, you understand each other and like to discuss things with each other. You have a great intellectual and creative understanding. This leads to a plethora of joint initiatives, perhaps in some areas of art?

Namjoon's Neptune (Capricorn) sextiles your Sun (Pisces)

This reading has gone over a lot to do with the physical expression of love in you and Namjoon's relationship. Those points are still valid, but the way his Capricorn Neptune sextiles your Pisces Sun reveals that there is an attraction to each other beyond the physical. There is a level of forgiveness and mercy in the chemistry between you that dances across the line of spiritual. This is a wonderful thing to see in your chart, especially with the conflicts you may have in certain areas of life. Always know that if you have trust and communication, there will always be forgiveness offered to both parties. More than that, the two of you share your dreams with a sense of freedom and security. Tolerance exists between the two of you, which is a very soothing and settling quality. Earlier we talked about emotional safety and how you know when and how to comfort each other. This aspect only multiplies that ten-fold.

Namjoon's Pluto (Scorpio) squares your Mercury (Aquarius)

However, be wary of this square. A freedom-requiring Aquarian Mercury can often be stifled or made uncomfortable by the Scorpio Pluto's intensity. Namjoon may have the tendency to want to direct your thoughts and ideas. He may read too much into what is said and what is not said, and you may not feel free to express your ideas when Namjoon is off-kilter. This isn't as negative as the aspects above, but it is something to be wary of.

Namjoon's Uranus (Capricorn) sextiles your Sun (Pisces)

This sextile is an unconventional one. You will be enriched by your relationship with Namjoon, which will lead to the discovery of a new world, original and full of change. You both go well together, but Namjoon may resist marriage, at least on a formal level. In some cases of a Capricorn Uranus sextile Pisces Sun, the relationship works better when the bond is not formalized. Even if simply for the sake of the Capricorn Uranus' sense of freedom.

Namjoon's Jupiter (Scorpio) trines your Lunar Node (Cancer)

You and Namjoon are made for each other. You go well together, have intellectual understanding and confidence in each other, and are an overall harmonious couple.

Namjoon's Mars (Cancer) conjuncts your Lunar Node (Cancer)

This is one indicator that suggests the relationship will endure. Despite the conflicts, the miscommunications and misunderstandings, the hurt feelings and emotional struggles you may go through, your love and passion will grow and last for a lifetime if both of you put in the work to keep the relationship alive. Given time and space, trust and freedom, comfort and forgiveness, there is nothing that you and Namjoon cannot weather together. Remember that the greatest strength you have is each other, and never forget why you fell in love in the first place. Even when struggles come, even when you feel lost or confused, even if you begin to wonder if it's still worth it, know that his planet of action and your True North are in the same emotional and loving sign.