#so until some other linguistic fix comes along that's what we're going with

[sadakodx]

making my own post instead of cluttering up op's: yeah theyfab isn't a slur and as someone who like, technically Falls Under The Perimeters (they/them, Assigned Y'know) i feel insane whenever i see people who do Not try to tell me "oh my god did you know theyfab is a BIG EVIL SLUR made by those BIG EVIL MA-- I MEAN WOMEN to OPPRESS YOU????????" like. i don't know if you knew this but sometimes marginalized people make fun of people with more privilege than them. if you don't consider a trans person making light fun of a cis gay person homophobia, then surely you have enough brainpower to deduce that a trans woman/a non-binary person assigned [indistinct mumbling] lightly dunking on a group of trans people far more socially accepted in lgbt spaces than they are is not equivalent to decades of transmisogyny and, in fact, is often Funny As Hell

edit: some dumbfuck left an essay worth of text on this i didnt read so if you're a man and you're reading this i hope you have a terrible day <3 OHHHH ISNT THAT SO SCARY OOOOOO [WIGGLING MY FINGERS AT YOU] I'M OPPRESSING YOU NOW MISANDRY IS REAL BECAUSE SOMEONE MADE YOU SAD ON THE INTERNET OOOOOO