#so to me jocy is a perfect example of an abuser loving their victim while still abusing them
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I read all that. ;p And I think it's interesting the psychology behind Joey's actions.
Regarding the bit in your tags, whether or not Tracy should do something bad- I think that depends on where you want the story to go.
Do you want it to be purely self indulgent? Then go ahead with all your favorite tropes and don't pay any mind to what others will think.
Do you want it to be very realistic? Real life victims can still end up doing no wrong but most are flawed because people are flawed.
And if you're lucky you might get both of these at once.
In the end it depends on what you want to do with his character. And how you want it to affect the story. If you'd like you can make his *lack* of action affect his character and story too. And of course you can make an AU of your OCs where something else happens in a different universe.
But I'll ask anyways. Regardless of whether or not he'll actually do something in the story, what would be Tracy's limits?
Would he commit an equally deplorable act and try to get his abuser to abuse another kid to set himself free?
Would he come up with some sort of self defense and abuse Joey back?
Would he do something that's actually moral but might seem immoral to someone who's been manipulated, like reporting his abusers?
I Think The Psychology Behind Joeys Actions Is Also Interesting Bc I Don’t Really Understand It And I’m The One Writing It LOL
When I Write I Like Writing Things I Think Other People Would Enjoy As Well As Myself So Idk If I Want It To Be Entirely Self Indulgent Just Mostly Bc There Is A Lot Of Ppl That Enjoy Smol Bean Bottom x Big Mean Top Like I Do
Honestly I Can’t See Tracy Actually Doing Something Super Bad The Worst Thing He’d Do Is Probably Be Mean To His Little Sister In Typical Middle Child + Big Brother Fashion And Calling Joey The F Slur Despite Knowing He Struggles With Internalized(And Tbh Externalized) Homophobia But Thats Not Like Awful And Most Defiantly Not Comparable With Being A Perpetrator Of SA And DV
So The Worst Tracy Is Gonna Do Is Be A Little Mean And Sassy Sometimes
For The Doing Something Moral That Might Seem Immoral Bc He’s Been Manipulated And Shit: Idk If This Is Considered Like A Morally Good Thing To Do But I Wouldn’t Say It’s Bad But Tracy Defiantly Feels Guilty Abt The Whole Thing With His Moms BF Even Tho He’s Technically Aware That What His Mothers BF Does Is Sexual Abuse And In Any Other Case The Victim Would Never Be At Fault He Still Blames Himself And Can’t Help But Feel Like He Did Something To Bring It On Himself His Brain Def Flip Flops Between “You Have A Perfectly Good Reason To Not Tell Your Mom Finding Out She Got With A Child Predator Would Kill Her + He Threatened You” And “The Fact This Has Been Going On For So Long And You Haven’t Told Your Mom Is Proof Your Basically Asking For It ATP Your Just Fucking Your Moms BF Bc You Want To” So He Definitely Feels Like He’s Doing Something Immoral There
I’m Still Trying To Figure Out If I He’ll Eventually Tell His Mother Abt Her BF Or Not My Original Plan Was For Joey To Be The One Who Helps Tracy Be Able To Finally Tell His Mom Abt It But I Think That’s Giving Him Too Much Credit TBH LOL Joeys Probably Worried If Tracy Realizes He Has The Ability To Report One Abuser He Might Realize He Has The Ability To Report Both Rendering Joey Both In Trouble With His Parents, With The School They Go To Probably, And Maybe Even The Law As Well As Leaving Him With One Less Tracy In His Life </3
Even Though Joey Beats On Tracy And Hates The Idea Of Anyone Else Touching Him He Also Genuinely Loves Tracy Even If He Has A Strange Way Of Displaying It
#I’ve always hated the saying if someone loves you they wouldn’t abuse you#bc ppl are both capable of loving you and abusing you#and it can make it hard for victims to realize they’re being abused if their abuser loves them#so to me jocy is a perfect example of an abuser loving their victim while still abusing them#and the fact the abuser loves their victim makes it harder for their victim to realize they’re abusive#proship oc#proship ocs#profic oc#profic ocs#darkship oc#darkship ocs#darkfic oc#darkfic ocs
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