#so theyre hatd to avoid. which makes it easier to leave ig

[spnshameblog]

Yeah ok, sorry, i think im gonna mass unfollow and block a lot of people. Ive said before that i wasnt going to be that active on this Blog anymore and i was gonna slowly pull back, but with the looming threat of prequel discourse and a fucking callout orgy taking up most of my dash, im gonna speed that process up.

Its genuinely frustrating, yall will amplify and uplift abrasive bullies bc you want to latch onto their clout and then you ask yourselves why the fandom got so toxic all of a sudden and why everyone is leaving?

Sometimes the person screaming the loudest and angriest isnt the most correct and sometimes piling on does more harm than good.

Callouts about other bloggers leave no room for people to grow or apologise and you will never convince me that callouts arent, at least in part, done for clout and attention.

I am in a lot of fandoms and this is definitely one of the least comfortable, in part bc everyone is constantly afraid theyre going to be the next target of having their missteps dissected and thats why so many of you try so desperately to avert any negative attention by condemning others as loudly as possible. This isnt to say that people didnt deserve getting criticised, but the fact that yall cant find a better way to go about this than to go "HEAR HEAR User xyz has been declared problematic." Is annoying. Also the fact that yall are treating minor missteps or slip ups with the same vehemency as you would unrepentant harmful behaviours is worrying. Some things are worse than others and sometimes the fuss you kick up about a sensitive topic is more traumatising and triggering than the actual mistake youre trying to call out.

So sorry, please dont take it personally if i break a mutual, but im too old for this mean girls shit. I genuinely hope most of these people grow out of their erratic behaviour bc you cant treat people like this.