#so my dad is forcing her to live with him in vdn and she keeps saying no i will convince him i will emotional
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i never grew up it's getting so old
#22 years old and i still can't stop being hopeful and telling mom that#mom you can divorce him i will support you i will give you all my salary and mom is like#i don't want to take money from you that way i would rather like work for something maybe you could open a firm#and i can help in that and im like yes that too it will take 2-3 years for me too to gain that experience but yes we can do it#and you will get alimony too and now didi is rich she's earning in dollars we will both support you#because like. she's kind of at a crossroads. i will hopefully move out next year beginning if i pass my exams#and my brother will move out this year only for college andmy sister already lives in another country#and my father is living in vrindavan and my mom hates living there bc obviously it's a dump!!! and she's lived here in st literally all her#life he has only been living there for like. ayear and he wants to uproot her whole life but lol what's new he did#the same thing when i was in 11th in rishikesh and then in one year and failed business project later#he came back here crawling he's so pathetic#so my dad is forcing her to live with him in vdn and she keeps saying no i will convince him i will emotional#ly tell his dad (my dada) bc obvi the dada-papa-chachu family drama that fucked our lives#and im like. i told her that mummy you've lived with him for 25 years how do you still not get it? he does not give#a fuck about you and your feelings why don't you understand it??? i kept telling#her that come on you're 50 years old now we're all raised now you have to live for yourself in these last good 20-25 yrs#just leave him we will support you only obviously we will and money will never be a problem now that he's earning#and i know indian law is favoured towards women and like idk if there's any evidence required but like.#domestic violence is a reason to file for divorce and okay we don't have evidence but like sit any of us in front of a therapist#or show us a violent scene and see how he start crying within 5 mins.#i hate thinking all these things i hate getting my hopes up over and over again it's been 5 years since she said she'll#never do that and yet I don't learn#but like. you're presenting a problem to me you're telling me you're so unhappy andhe treats you like dirt#and i can literally hear the tears in your voice over the phone and you expect me to not try to solve it? fuck u honestly#that's where my stupid i can save them complex comes from i fall in love with broken people and i think#i can save them with love and tenderness and i keep failing just like i did with you mom#already happened twice now and i still can't get over it so thank you thank you for making sure#that we both live horrible lives👍#and don't come at me saying she was raised this way she can't even imagine divorce bc it's been like#12 yrs of this bullshit (as far as i can rmbr) so i think she should have learned by now changed by now
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