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zombiesama · 5 years ago

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What I thought: I'm just getting in the car to bring my boyf home :) that's polite

What I got: my mom discussing my recent coming out, as well as future housing options, while we drive down the highway attempting to recharge the cars battery for an actual Hour

#rice rambles #we dropped off henri and then she was just 'while i have you in the car!#and started asking questions and im just hhhhh #shes. accepting. kinda? its like. she wanta to eventually get to the point of using my name(s) and ? maybe my pronouns #but its Too Much tight away #so instead she asked if she could ease in by stopping using my birthname and changing to a nickname (banana)#bc its Too Much #but she will tell specific family members who were confused but too worried abt offending me to ask abt it what to call me #so like. at least theres that #and shes all 'i love you but just remember my beliefs'#and idk if she means it that way but what it sounds like is #'i love you but youre going against god and i dont believe thats real' bc of how she says it #and im just hhhhhh #it was Wild #like. glad we got that over with #bc itd be OOF no matter when it happened #and ive been anxious abt hearing her response to this anyway #so. nice i guess.

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