#simkinthefool

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I’m sorry you’re struggling with so many a gut wrenching feelings after a relationship ended. There’s no real timeline for how long things hurt, no scale to measure or express to others, or yourself, the intensity of those feelings. It can hit in a very physical, emotional, and sexual way, as you’ve been expressing.

My hope is that you have some periods where it’s not as intense, where maybe you have a brief reprieve. If posting those feelings helps, then post away without any shame or guilt about opening up. If you need a person to talk to, and I’m sure you have plenty of offers, I am here to listen. I’m not stranger to heartache, and I want you to know you’re not alone even though it may feel that way at times.

Sending you as much digital love and compassion as I can. 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

Thank youuuuu it has been hard and im wavering. Today was good and then it wasn't. The hardest part is accepting that it's over, im a daydreamer so sometimes when I get pulled back into reality I snap like today aha. It's so hard to imagine my life without him.

I have had a lot of people offer their ears and shoulders and im extremely grateful, especially when those conversations don't turn sexual which is rare on tumblr lmao. But i appreciate the offer a lot! I will take you up on that if I need. I do find it hard to lean on people here tho idk. It's heartbreaking to know how many people have gone through or are going through a similar situation but i do know I'm not alone in these feelings.

I for sure have periods where I'm okay and not focussing on it all completely, which I have my family to thank for, and of course everyone on here who has extended a hand! I'm thankful that I can just vent and not be judged here🩷🩷🩷

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Hey there, friend! I happened to see several of your most recent posts and just wanted to take a moment and reach out. I am truly sorry that so many terrible things have caused you so much agony and distress. I am glad you have a supportive sibling with whom you were able to vent and relieve some of that pain and frustration. I know how posting those frustrations, as you were, can sometimes feel like crying into a void, but this isn't a void. On the other end are many people who hear and see you, who care about you, even as an unmet and anonymous individual, just as you are a caring person on your end. If you ever feel the need to unload to someone, I am here and more than happy to listen, engage, or support, and I am certain I am not the only one. Yes, we may be a community of degenerates who use these blog spaces to explore or express the sides of ourselves less often associated with tenderness, kindness, thoughtfulness, or care for one another, but just as you are a person on your end, so too are we. I am not one for platitudes, as I have heard too many of them myself to know how easily they are given and how uncaring they can feel. I am sorry for your pain. I appreciate your openness. Your wellbeing is my concern, as it is to many others, degenerate strangers included.

I've just woken up so I am struggling to reply to all of this lmao but thank you! I do feel like an idiot venting so much personal shit here and it is possibly not a great thing that I'm talking about my exes life buuuut it has been a good outlet for me and as I've said, I have therapy soon so yall won't have to put up with it so much then haha. But yeah this site is like a lifesaver almost and everyone has been so genuine and lovely. I appreciate it so fucking much. My sister and I used to fight so much in the past but we are so close now which is awesome. I truly am lucky to have my family and the support I have