#si:miss doyle

[charliedoyleloves]

Miss Doyle, do you believe in soulmates? (For the s/i and oc ask event [@dzvagabond])

No. I do not believe in Soulmates. I do not believe in true love.

Love has no divine backing behind it, except the ones that people put into it themselves. But it is undoubtedly hard work. I find that terms like “Soulmates” dilute the effort put into a relationship.

I can appreciate the thought behind it, but no.

[charliedoyleloves]

Ah, diw my first ask didn't sent through?? From the ship asks, the last 5 for Miss doyle??

Of course my dear. I would be able to answer those questions. I’ll also be keeping them in order, so people can know what they were. Under a ‘cut’ (?) for readability.

What is it like living together? If you don’t live together, have you ever thought of moving in together?

Llewellyn and I do not currently live together. It would be deemed inappropriate for an unmarried couple to do so, especially considering I have to deal with the more... knowledgeable of these social rules. Though, he has been over to my home on several occasions. And, while not something that should be done, he has stayed the night.

I... I have thought of him moving in. Or finding a flat or small home for the two of us. Though... the relationship needs to proceed before we can consider that.

Have any pets? Or want any pets?

I don’t have pets. Neither does he. For two very different reasons.

Have you/they proposed? If so, how?

He has not yet proposed, nor I’m sure he has a desire to. While I would be willing to move forward as a ‘common law’ relationship, my family would demand that he ‘Make an Honest Woman’ of me.

Not that they know much about my honesty.

Any wedding plans? Or if you’re already married, what was the wedding like?

We have no wedding plans. And it would be complicated. Llewellyn is looking more and more towards his Jewish heritage. My family is unapologetically Catholic. There would be issues, as I would want my family involved with any potential wedding of ours.

Have kids/want them?

I want kids... eventually. There are things I want to figure out first, and I believe Llewellyn wants to figure out some things on his side as well.