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LONG REVIEW

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This review isn’t an f4 one (surprisingly. Yes, I do watch other dramas to fill the void that Thyme and Gorya leaves every weak) This time it’s for the web series User not Found.

I’m not sure if this is series is a popular one but the character intrigued me so fuck it.

User not found tales of two Yoo Min Jae’s. One who was an outsider all her life and another who was the popular girls that every could only dream to be. Upon transferring to a new school, the two girls switched identities and became good friends.

Another important relationship other than the two Min Jae’s is the relationship between the fl min jae and ml Shin Yi Joon. The two of them connect to one another in a personal level due to their similar personalities. They are both people pleasers. The two have a hard time saying no to people. They have this awkward cute af relationship where they are shy and have a hard time expressing their feelings.

Watching the two interact, it is very easy to get frustrated with them. It’s like you to yell at the screen and say “JUST FUCKING KISS ALREADY!” And to be honest, I was a bit frustrated my self. But as a fellow people pleaser myself, the reality is it os hard for us to interact with people to be honest. In fact, it is far worse than what is shown on the series.

I don’t want to get too deep into my history but I was raised by an narcissistic abuser. Something that I was only able to come to terms with only recently. People pleaser’s state of mind is one that is very hard to explain. We would priorities everyone and anything above our own priorities and boundaries, because abandonment is our biggest fear.

Saying yes to people is always at the tip of my tongue. There are so many people who knew I would say yes and use it to their advantage. Why is it so hard to say no? Out of fear of confrontation. Out of fear that we could potentially offend someone because even the thought of that is triggering.

We would go out of out way to be someone we’re not just to please a stranger because in our head, we want to be their friend. The countless of times I would text people with “I’m alright with anything,” even when I’m not is too much to count.

The only thing that could help us is finding people who knows our situation and won’t use you. My best friend (god bless her) would actually sit down next to me and give a disapproving look when i sent such text until i finally get used to voicing how i actually feel. Gradually (even though it takes a course of deleting and rewriting a text to finally get there) i get used to it. We need people who force the truth out of us to get better.

Back to the two main characters. When Shin Yi Joon had that problem with that girl who thought they were more than friends, I felt that. I’ve had guys ask me out and I don’t know how to tell them I’m not interested. Which is sick because we shouldn’t feel like we owe people ourselves.

I’ve had people telling me I was a player just because I ghost a lot of guys, but truly what happened was I panicked. Shin Yi Joon panicked and did not reply, because he probably thought that was better than hurting the girl. He let the girl slap him because it’s easier to let them look at him as the bad guy than confronting the girl.

That scene where he put in his airpods is so accurate. It is easier to just pretend that you’re deaf or fake idiocy then saying no. That’s the truth. Ghosting to most is a “fuckboy” thing but to him, it is the easiest way to set his boundary.

He probably knew rumours were going around. He didn’t say anything because he probably started believing it as well. You have to understand, it’s in our nature to blame others first because we can’t fathom the people we care as being anything but nice so we block that idea out and when it doesn’t make sense, we make sense of it by blaming us. It’s sick. Deep down he knew he wasn’t wrong but it’s easier to blame himself and think he’s the problem.

Where was his arc? When he met Yoo Min Jae. When he met her, he started being more vocal. Hw started saying no. Even his cousin pointed out that he changed. Why? Because he finally had someone he genuinely liked. That person’s feeling is now his number one priority. Losing that person is much scarier than losing anyone else, which his cousin probably figured out.

On to Yoo Min Jae. Yoo Min Jae is too kind for her own good. Her people pleaser tendency is much more obvious than Shin Yi Joon. Having friends, having that assurance that you are a great asset to the friend group…I can only imagine how great that feeling must, especially when you’ve never felt that your whole life.

Most people will see it like Min Jae 2.0, thinking she’s naive and foolish. But what people don’t understand is how euphoric the feeling of having validation is to her. It’s a great feeling. She would do anything everything to see a single laughter or any sign of approval for her friend. Shit, if they told her to roll on mud just to make them laugh, she probably would. That’s how she is.

That moment when she realised that SL Shin Hye Jun was anything but genuine to her, that alone is the biggest heartbreak and betrayal. Because she was always genuine. You can read her emotions on her face because she had always been honest with everything. When she said she thought of you as her friend, that was an understatement. She thought you are a die hard loyal af, I’ll die for you my best friends, type of friend because she was that- to him. But he’s treating her like he’s far less than that.

The worst part is, she won’t blame him. She would blame herself. She would think “Oh, it’s my fault. The problem is me, that’s why he had to fake it. I was being too hard on him.” If he apologised, in a snap of a finger, she would take him back. In her head she knew her popular friends, Hye Jun are toxic and unhealthy but the thought of losing them is worse than the pain she felt when she was being used. So she assured herself “I can handle it.”

That is the reality.

I’m writing this review because I thought this is something that needs to be talked about. This needs awareness. If you have a friends who is down for everything, who never says no, please talk to that person. They’re not “cool” or “chill”. They’re probably going through something that’s very hard to for them to open up about. If you feel that your friend is always going along with your decision, please sit down and say “no, I want to hear how you feel.” Or “No, I want to follow your choice.”

I’m not saying this to put the burden on you to fix your friend. Of course that person still needs professional help, but doing this could potentially save a person. The other day, I texted a friend “Let’s meet at 1.” To you, that’s probable easy and simple but to us, that’s is far put of the norm. Usually our texts would be “let’s meet anytime”

If you have these issues as well, feel free to talk below. The chat is always open however I’m not sure how good of an advice i could give because i’m pretty bad myself lol. Hopefully having a conversation could help more people.

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talk in ask if you save/use one!

[usertoxicyaoi]

Hi how are you? Hopefully well <3 two quick questions, what is tinted with you and user not found about/your thoughts? Im intrigued but i dont know anything but also dont want to google too much and see spoilers you know? 😅🙈 hope its ok to come to you for some info. Anyway have a good rest of the weekend 💓

hiiii anon!!!! i'm well!!! i hope you are too and that you're having a good weekend too!!!

aaahhhh okay!

so tinted with you is a back to the future type story about a high school student called eunho, who gets taken back in time and meets heon, an exiled prince, and heon's bodyguard called geum. at first, geum is reluctant to trust eunho, but then ultimately ends up trusting him when he realised heon has feelings for eunho. the only way eunho can come back to the future is by completing a painting that he does with heon. geum suggests to eunho to take heon with him back to the future, so that heon is in no way of any danger from his brother and the royal family, who want heon dead, which means heon has to leave geum behind. but in the end, that doesn't happen, bc all 3 make it back to the future and have a happy ot3 ending!!!!!

user not found is about 2 girls, both called yoo minjae who enrol at a new school. one of the two was a "nobody" at her previous school who just wants to have friends and feel confident at her new school, whilst the other was hugely popular, but after an incident, wants to lie low from now on. their fates crossover once they enrol at the school, where the non-popular minjae becomes popular and develops a social circle of "friends" and feelings for a boy called shin yijoon, whilst the popular minjae becomes the unpopular one. but that means that they both don't really know how to navigate being popular and unpopular. so they both consult one another in an agreement to help one another navigate their way through high school, and all the problems/encounters you face at high school, like love and friendships and betrayal and backstabbing from your "so called friends".

[solplparty]

[GREETING] JINHO (진호), KINO (키노) of 펜타곤 - A-HA! (다른 우리) | @User not found OST (@계정을 삭제하였습니다 OST) https://youtu.be/AfsXYKJ9ro8 회차 거듭할수록 더더 꿀잼되는 웹드라마 [@계정을 삭제하였습니다] 뭐니뭐니해도...재미에 MSG 뿌려 주는 건...오스트지!!👩 🍳👨 🍳 두 번째로 공개되는 이번 계.삭 OST 주인공은 청량갑 아이돌 #펜타곤 입니다🎉 🎧 1/7 (금) 18시 펜타곤 - 다른 우리(A-HA!) (Sung by 진호, 키노) 민재와 이준의 메인 테마곡이자, 감각적인 사운드가 매력적인 이번 OST도 드라마와 함께 많이많이 봐주시고 들어주세요💕 ================================================== As the web series continues, the fun continues even with a greater enjoyment [USER NOT FOUND] OST is like salt and pepper to the excitement of the web series~ it gives that nice finishing touch to it, if you know what I mean~ 👩 🍳👨 🍳 The second OST of 'USER NOT FOUND' web series is idol #PENTAGON , they are here to refresh your ears🎉 🎧 January 7th Friday 6pm KST, PENTAGON - A-HA! (sung by JINHO, KINO) It's the main theme song for Minjae and Yijun, and also very appealing to the ears with sensual sound. Same with this OST show us your love with your interest💕 ================================================= #계정을삭제하였습니다 #USERNOTFOUND #OST #PENTAGON #펜타곤 #KINO #키노 #JINHO #진호 #신소현 #Shin So-hyun #배진영 #한예지 #안세민 #정현지 #신이준 NEW는 영화, 음악, 드라마, 극장사업, 스포츠 등 다양한 엔터테인먼트의 분야를 아우르는 종합 콘텐츠 미디어 그룹입니다. MUSIC&NEW의 유튜브 채널을 구독하시고 K-POP 아티스트들의 신곡과 뮤직비디오, 미공개 독점 영상 등을 가장 먼저 만나보세요. NEW (NEXT ENTERTAINMENT WORLD) content media group always thrives to bring the best new entertainments like movies, music, drama, sports and musicals to the audiences. Subscribe and stay tuned to MUSIC&NEW's YouTube channel to get your eyes on newly released songs, music videos, exclusive videos and etc of K-POP artists. MUSIC&NEW 뮤직앤뉴

[solplparty]

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