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[echoesofphilip]

[anderperrylover]

WHY NEIL PERRY

CONTENT Warning - emotional traumas and childhood trauama - based on true experiences

I never thought I'd write this - but I wanted to write this because I thought it might be helpful...

So, this is a bit of a personal thing but ever since I sat down and watched DPS something struck me. I had denied it on my first watch but I couldn't ignore it when I rewatched it. My life in many ways mirrors Neil's. Mr. Perry's words gave me a sense of deja vu - because my dad had used the words on me too - Like you have more opportunities than I ever had - this acting business (writing for me) - - You can do anything after college (when you're on your own)

It took me a while to understand and fully grasp the toxicity of the relationship. Then I started looking back - and I saw things from a new light. I was a child and I thought that it came out of love (maybe it did - but I doubt that now - no child deserves emotional or physical trauma like that). I think that is the reason I constantly keep apologising for everything (even when I did nothing wrong)

The confrontation Neil has with his father hurts me but I am also numbed now - I am in a pit (following what my father told me to do) - I feel suffocated and sometimes I feel nothing and sometimes I feel everything - Honestly it hurts and guts me - I can understand where my dad is coming from but it still hurts - because they don't seem to understand anything about me - They want me to look at it from their perspective and they want me to be grateful - but they never look at things through my perspective.

If you've been through a similar experience - reach out. Find a friend to talk to. Find someonoe who you can trust - don't look for temporary distractions. Find your place and find your strength there - And if possible find distance (that has helped me big time - the distance allows me to maintain a better mind-set) - Meditate and keep fighting for the things you love. Find love and take a chance and seize the day (start with small things - like writing a blog or reading or listening to music).

Know that you're not alone; know that there are people you can talk to and know that you are enough. There are people that love you and understand you and they will be your family (believe me family is not about blood - sounds cliched now but trust me - FAMILY IS FOUND AND FAMILY REACHES OUT TO ONE ANOTHER - THEY UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER AND THEY TRY TO LEARN FROM MISTAKES - THEY TRY TO HELP EACH OTHER)

Love, that is a place to start. Love yourself - love the little things in life and try to do something new (I started playing Pool it's something I wasn't encouraged to do because everyone kept on telling me that I'll tear the fabric - and I reconnected with theatre which is something I fell out of due to personal reasons - I didn't go for one audition because I had cousins coming over and I didn't want to inconvenience anyone - then they treated us badly and everyone blamed me for a breakdown - when I told them that I gave up for a reason a relative asked what and then they gaslit me when I said no one came to my defence when I had the breakdown by telling me that they always defended me)

I am eternally grateful for this film because it made me realise the extent of emotional trauma I had. It helped me see my strengths and find my own courage. It's never easy - Believe me it isn't, but you have to keep on fighting. You're incredible and talented and bold - find your courage and love yourself.

So, Neil Perry, thank you. You made me see the truth and love myself. Update - things have improved but they have a long way to go - I am still apologetic and my parents act like nothing happened - It is hard but at least there is temporary relief - It's not enough but for now - It's all I need

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

Keep in mind that you never know the last time you will see a place or a person, so make sure to appreciate every moment.

[bastardblonde]

[one-highfalutin-sonuva-gun]

Itey - Seize the Day

I wonder what Itey finds so funny.

[thecurseofafirsttimewriter]

Wretched Power | 𝐃𝐄𝐀𝐃 𝐏𝐎𝐄𝐓𝐒 𝐒𝐎𝐂𝐈𝐄𝐓𝐘 (BOOK ONE) (on Wattpad) 

Death can cause people to do the unpredictable. 

Welton Academy didn't house girls. There were no exceptions. Generation after generation after generation of grade-hypnotised men and their sons walked the halls, slept in the beds, and ate the famous Mystery Meat every day. They expected their great-great grandsons to attend the same school, carry the same amount of books, sleep in the same beds, and obey the same rules. 

𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐝, 𝐚 𝐭𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐬𝐦𝐢𝐫𝐤 𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐜𝐫𝐨𝐬𝐬 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐩𝐬 𝐚𝐬 𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐃𝐞𝐚𝐧, 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐇𝐞𝐥𝐥. 

But... death can cause people to do the unpredictable. 

STARTED: May 29, 2023 

FINISHED: June 6, 2023

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[echoesofphilip]

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[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

[fixquotes]

"Either you run the day or the day runs you"

- Jim Rohn

[lyrics365]

그날 그대로 (Just like that day)

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