#same with sanityknights

[soulwitch]

Don’t panic, but the urls will change tonight and other stuff will come tomorrow.

[zorkaya-moved]

what's your role in a found family dynamic?

the brains.

people are not so much your forte. you are more at home with thoughts, ideas, hobbies, skills. as such, you probably have to learn how to work well with others--but once you do, hey, it has its moments. while you are treasured for your ability to solve problems, people also have this unique love of novelty. when you break from your schedule, when you say something no one is expecting--that's novel. you are as curious and lovable as the subjects you study. you are family. this place is not the same without your witty comments and wry observations. you definitely feel more comfortable when someone needs a straightforward answer than a shoulder to cry on, but it's not impossible to give both. know that your family loves you for more than that, though, and will (usually) remember to respect your boundaries.

tagged by: @etherux​ !  ( thank you, serin ~ )​

tagging: @dekirukoto​ , @highseaskxng​ / @kaedehxra​ / @siamxshade​ , @sinaeoin​ , @sanityknights​ , @eraba-reta-unmei​ , @exalted--zealotry​ , @exocetx​ , @exrhlab​ , @eliteimperialism​ / @planetaryphenomenon​ / @lucetestellae​ , @hcstofthevoid​ . and everyone who wants to do this! 

[tiredstudents]

@sanityknights said: You can't force everyone to get along, and some simply don't want to co-exist. It is nice to see someone who does at least, try to keep a hand open to everyone even if we're all isolated in our groups. You're doing your best. Ty for it.

Thanks Kako

But yeah it is not an easy issue to get around for sure. Even if I try to keep my options open, I find myself falling into some of the same trappings. Not everyone is going to get along but I dunno, it sometimes just feels more isolated then it should be. 

[muse-matrix]

@sanityknights​ | Continued from here

Sitting in Skadi’s lap, letting the hunter brush her hair calmly, peacefully, perhaps even the clouds forming outside, ready to make it snow, might dissipate for a short time. The sort of warm and safe feeling the small Lung wanted to last an eternity, while Skadi brushes through those messy blue locks.

Of course when Skadi is done, she’ll take the comb and give it a careful try. She wants to learn, give Skadi’s long and soft hair the same sort of care and attention Skadi gave hers, make her feel warm and safe.