TL;DR: If you're not going to condemn the other people in Jamie's life for drinking around him, then stop condemning Jess.
The argument about Jess endangering Jamie's sobriety because she has drunk wine while out in public with him, and drank even without him, is incredibly nuanced. And many people lack that nuance when talking about it. We can't assume just because she drinks in public settings, that she keeps it in the house with a recovering alcoholic. We've also only seen non-alcoholic wine in the house, which Jamie has drank non-alcoholic beers and wines on his own volition for years, let me also be clear.
You can have your own view on the ethics of drinking around a sober person, absolutely. But I think it's incredibly blasé to just jump to the idea that there was never any sort of discussion about Jamie's limits and boundaries with alcohol, as two adults in a relationship.
And, it's certainly not as if Jamie has just never been around other people who are drinking (or seen posts of people drinking on Instagram..?). Not that I'm speaking for him, but just, for example:
I mean... was Jamie's band toxic for him for clearly having Jack Daniels whiskey in the green room and drinking beer around him while he was sober?
What about his OWN BROTHER posting photos of himself drinking that Jamie could see, or even posing with a glass of champagne with him?
What about the rest of his FAMILY, drinking wine at Christmas around him? While Jamie has a nonalcoholic beer himself?
like... if you're not going to condemn all the other people in his life for drinking alcohol around him, or posting themselves drinking alcohol, shut up about Jess doing it.
Ровно 3 года назад вышел клип на песню COUNTERFEIT. - It Gets Better
В съемках приняли участие фанаты коллектива.
К сожалению, это был последняя совместная работа COUNTERFEIT.((((
What I love most about this clip, is that Jamie isn't just excited because their single is making its radio debut - he is utterly STOKED here because this is the moment where Sam's guitar solo comes in, and he is so damn proud of his brother. ❤️🎸