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PSA: Clutter.

I’m feeling like I should address a couple of posts I’ve made recently, because I want to avoid any type of confusion: So, PLEASE READ THIS !

Recently, and also a month or so ago, I made a few posts about deleting the blogs of muses who I feel have “died.”

I know that seems harsh at a glance, but here’s why I do it;

Some of you already know this, but I have anxiety and a trait of my anxiety is that clutter triggers attacks for me. Usually it makes it very difficult for me to think, organize or stay focused. It will also make me angry or frustrated on occasion. I also have a pretty short attention span- because of these two things, I try to find ways to keep my blog as clutter free as possible. 

One of them is that I keep my muses as sideblogs. However, when that list of blogs appears to be getting too long, but nothing is happening on said blogs, I feel the urge/need to delete anything that seems unnecessary. Therefor, if it seems like a partner of mine has lost interest or “left,” I will wait about a month (it varies) before I delete the muse. 

B U T, I keep brief notes on all of my muses. That means if it so happens that a partner returns and wants to jump back into our plot (I realize real life is a thing and I expect you get out and go live it, baby!) I can put the muses’ blog right back together, and we can either start over, or from where we left off!

This’ll probably rub some people the wrong way, and I understand that and am truly sorry for it- but It’s just easier for me to get rid of things that aren't being used. It keeps me sane.

-Shannon, xoxo~

P.S.,  This applies to any type of clutter, or things that I deem as clutter. It’s why I examine blogs before I follow them (I prefer my dash be easy to scroll), it’s why I sometimes put my conversation/comments in tags (I don’t want my posts to get too long) and why I’ll suddenly get the urge to move to an entirely different main blog (too many likes/untagged posts stress me out)

Also, that short attention span I mentioned earlier? Sometimes you’ll see that I’ve forgotten that we’ve ever even plotted, please, feel free to just remind me. If you even suspect that I’ve forgotten; Remind. Me. I swear, I won’t be bothered. Chances are it slipped my mind and I require a nudge. I really just tend to forget to write these things down, but I’m working on it. I promise.

                                Thanks for Understanding                                                I Love You

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Y’all, I’m considering moving blogs and switching mascots. 

I was thinking Paramore for the mascot change, because my babies are about to come back and take over.

Also though, moving would make it easier for me to get organized, you know? There are just way too many untagged posts and likes on here, I’d never get through all of them. Buuut, all of my muse blogs arehere, so that’s sorta keeping me here... I don’t know.

Also, I don’t know that I’m ready to part with Emily. Rather, I don’t know if I’ll ever be ready to part with her.

What do you all think?