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wedding nowadays

Actually, i already typed this post few months back. But i kept it as Draft, because i got no time to continue typing and no time to post this. So since i did post the same thing at my Facebook last night, now i decided to continue typing this post. hehe.

i dont understand why.

Islam suruh kita kahwin kecil-kecilan or untuk nak disedap dengar, “kahwin sederhana”, but how to kahwin sederhana if masyarakat tak mengalakkan kita untuk kahwin sederhana? Honestly, me & Sayang don’t wanna spend much on wedding. I know that wedding is once in a life time, but do you really have to spend $30k and above for your wedding that will only be less than 6 hours?

Futhermore sayang is very very very particular in all these. He don’t wanna spend much on wedding, but he prefers spending more on our honeymoon, and life after married. He likes simple things, yet elegance in anything. So as his “future wife to be”, yes, i have to listen to him. For now training lah konon haha.

So after months of finding pelamin decoration, Alhamdullilah ive found a vendor! Yes, deposit done.  While searching for pelamin vendors, i got surprised when i came across pelamin deco with a price range of $4k, $5k, $6k and above! Imagine pelamin and deco ONLY tau! Not that we not mampu, but we.just.don’t.want.to.spend.much.on.our.wedding. fullstop

“Tu $6k nak spend on pelamin, spend on island hopping much more worth it b.” Sayang will diffinately say that. Diffinately.

So i dont understand why masyarakat kita buat wedding business, with pricing nau’zubillah. But issokay, Allah is always with us. I believe that Allah akan tolong along the way, Insya’allah.

Masa time tunang, i didn’t spent much on it. Takdelah sampai nak buat pelamin bagai, atau nak ada photographer ke apa. Just a simple small one will do. And for my makeup and dress, its from my sister’s friend. Her friend makeup kan and borrowed her dress to me. Save banyak gile!

And you know! photography for our wedding sayang took the packages without album! Can you imagine that! hahahaha. I got shocked lah went he chose the package without album like why? why donch you want to take the package without album? abeh gambar semua macam mana right? His respond, “B, nanti lama2 album gambar kahwin tu entah taktahu kemana nanti. Lagipun kalau kita tak amek with album, they will give us thumbdrive with all the unlimited photos so we can print gambar mana kita nak, and buat frame besar. If you really want to have album, we will do it at Johor, then we can choose our own album frame, lagi lawa2.” Riggggggggght, i toldchu this man realllllllllllllly sukaaaaaaa buat saving mcm gini. Kan senang terus ada album dari photographer tak payah nak susahkan diri turun naik print itu ini, right? but again, kena dengar cakap bakal suami kannnnn. haha

And yes, you can still have a beautiful wedding at a smaller price tag! Frankly, i’m really really bersyukur that i found all my vendors at a very affordable, reasonable prices! I got shocked after i did the calculation of the total amount of my wedding event! Seriously! hehe. I will update more about my vendors, the prices etc after my wedding event. As for now, I will just hope for the best for my event, and hopefully all the vendors play apart for my event soon hehe.

I pity all the future brides in the upcoming years! I cannot imagine how the prices gonna be like! 2017 now, and the prices is already increased! All the vendors that ive booked few months back, they has increased their prices! omg. Honestly, zaman skg wasn’t easy to find a affordable prices for pelamin deco, catering, makeup artist etc etc. Skg dah banyak gile company malay wedding. 

Well.. I guess i shall stop now. hehe. All the best to me, and also to all upcoming brides! 💋💕

May Allah ease my journey, Amin.

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Aku tidaklah semulia Khadijah, setaqwa Aisyah, setabah Fatimah. Bukan pula sekaya Balqis, apalagi secantik Zulaikha. Aku hanyalah wanita akhir zaman yang punyai cita-cita menjadi Isteri yang Solehah.. Insya'Allah❤ #myhappiness #rahmatxsabrina #rsxvi

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Yes I'm constantly reminding myself to enjoy this whole journey of planning. hee! #rsxvi

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Happy 2017💋

Honestly, I wasn't in a very good mood after knowing that you can't tag along. I cried in the toilet at work on the last day of 2016 and thought how sucks life is that I have to go through this.

Maybe because it's been very very very long i didn't cry, so i guess it's time to wash my eyes haha so yes I cried. As I watched myself in the mirror while crying, I realised that this is what Allah given me. Yes he tested me in this way. To want sayang be with me always, because I used to have him to wherever I go. But I have to accept the fact that everything has changed. I have to accept the fact that he can't be with me always like how he used to because of his current job.

He tried to be there for me last night, but he just couldn't. Because he had to replaced people who's on leave. sigh. But Allah is always the best. He knows how deeply I hurt knowing that he can't be there, Allah knows how much I misses him, Allah knows how sad I am that I couldn't meet him everytime.

So HE arranged for a 30 minutes meet up at Sayang’s place. Alhamdullilah.

Without me knowing tiba-tiba papa cakap he got jemputan just right below Sayang’s block, so I went to the jemputan sekejap and went up to his place because at the same time I got something to give to his mom that I brought from KL.

Seriously, even though the meet up only lasted for 30 minutes, but that 30 minutes seriously changed me. I was down since at work, and mama kept asking me why macam sedih. But after meeting him, mama terus cakap "Ni baru diri adik yang betul, happy2. Skg baru nampak happy2, kalau tak tadi macam lembu kena sembelih, senyap, lemah aje." hahahaha mama😂

Hi sayang..

Thank you for working so hard for the sake of us. You had to missed all events, all the holidays season but issokay sayang, like you said "Susah skg, senang later." hehe Insya'Allah. 

May 2017 bring more and more happiness in us. I had a great 2016 with chu, infact all the years being with you I enjoyed hehe. We have few more months to go, let's do this together bb💪❤

A month down is a month closer. i can't wait to see what awaits us in 2017. May Allah ease every of our plans/journey till the big day💋💕

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missing you😌

I have never miss you this badly.

No, not missing you for not seeing you. But i guess I miss your presence.

Things has changed eversince you start kerja baru, but I know you’re doing this for us. Now all you’re looking forward for was, sleeping. Every single day I have to dealt with your endless tertidur. But issokay, i always believe that “Understanding, Give and Take, Trust” need to have in a relationship. I understand that you badly need your sleep after 12 hours of your working shift. I’m being give and take in a ways of when you sacrificed your time meeting up with me, after the meet ups, I gave you space to have your sleep without disturbing you. And I’ve been always trusting you in whatever you’re doing😌

I may not have you like last time. Having you allllll the time with me. Every family events, family outings etc you were always there. But I have to accept the fact that now you’re working 12 hours shift, and you can’t be there at times. I understand that you have been working office hours for the past 4 years, and now, your body system change and you need a little time to adapt with shift line and it is okay yang, soon you will get used to it.😘

But eventhough you may not be there for me all the time, I’m still glad that you tried. You tried to be there for me. You called me up whenever you’re free, you texted me whenever you have the chance to, you sacrificed your time to spend with me when you are supposed to be sleeping at home. You spent a little time to asked how's my day, you spent a little time to be my listening ear listened to my problems i had at work before going to bed. Thank you b😌

And it is totally ok if you never bring me to those high ends restaurant, or surprise me with flowers, or surprise me with Pandoras, or surprise me with anything on normal days like every guy did, cause I know you’re always there for me regardless of anything, you were always here with me when I needed you the most. And that's all matters🙃

You don’t have to show your love by buying all those stuffs, cause you have always shown me how important i am in your life hehe. You’ve given me more than all those things above and I don’t wanna ask for more. 😌

Thank you for all the hard works sayang. I won’t forget every little bits of your efforts that you are doing and had done for me, for my future, for yours and for us.😌 We have less than a year to fight and get over this! Let’s bersabar a little bit ok yang☺

I will always be here for you regardless of anything. I will always be at your back to support you in everything. And don’t worry sayang, I will always be more understanding towards you. Sabar sikit ok bb?

Loveyou!😘💋💕💕

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Hello dear readers! Finally I have some time to update my wedding preparation post. Well… Honestly it’s been months I’ve been searching around for vendors of pelamin/deco, bridal outifts/MUA, photographer etc etc. Skg dah banyak sangat orang buat wedding business. So it means that I got so so so so many choices in hand for pelamin/deco, bridal outfits/MUA etc. Serious pening kepala taktahu mana…