#rekiiypt

[garbagequeer]

I saw something like 'oh if my water or something is being a dick ima not tip them' and I dont know how I feel about that? like its probably not easy to have to wait on a shit ton of customers a day and have them act all entitled? like my mom always taught us to not judge people when they are momentarily mean to you bc you dont know what they r going through? also in my religion there's this thing where you give someone 70 excuses b4 you pass judgement..empathy is a dying trend

yeah like the short time you spend talking to a waiter is literally not indicative of anything since they’re already in an unpleasant situation so it’s like. you can just be chill about it imo. also like it’s weird what we consider “rude” for people who do these jobs like..... a person being pissed off that day or tired or just out of it isn’t mean it’s whatever!! i mean if your waiter comes over spits on your drink and calls you a dick THAT’S disrespectful but other than that if you sat and ordered food and they went and got you food it’s alright like allow them to have their own shit going on please. ALSO that anyone would think the fact that the waiter wasn’t nice to you is somehow more important than the fact that your waiter seems to be having a terrible day like.. can we have some human decency can we PLEASE have some human decency? im baffled that people would judge a person for not being all nice and smiling at their job like dkfjhg you didn’t buy this person’s feelings you bought a coffee or a meal or whatever and they did their job

and then on top of that i feel like people really make it like... a moral thing to have the ideal attitude in the workplace like if you aren’t doing your job and putting effort into it and caring about it and smiling and being nice while you do it you’re somehow a failure and an asshole and all these bad things (and therefore you don’t deserve the money and that’s an unbelievable way to think because like... people need money to live??) and it’s not even just your employers opinion anymore, it’s the costumer’s and that costumer often shares social class with you but lots of people now see themselves more as costumers than as workers so you have people who’ve waited tables not wanting to tip people who wait tables because they weren’t nice enough even though they know it’s hard and that they need that money and they’ve gone through the same but they don’t feel identified with the person working because they construct their identities around buying things instead of doing things and it’s bananas tbh. the capitalist mindset is killing brain cells out there

anyways i feel like i ranted here and im sorry please do tip people if you can and be considerate and on the lookout for how certain ways of thinking might make you dehumanize people doing their jobs like it’s free to not say the person you bought a soda from was an asshole because you didn't like their tone and it also prevents me from getting sad about all this which i just think is a nice plus

[wowed-by-ace]

Loona!

(God, I’ve meant to get into LOONA, especially with their cool ass debut—)

Heart Attack!

[Send me a group, and I’ll tell you a favorite song of mine from them!]

[hongjooong]

Happy birthday! ✨✨

Thank you 😣💕❤💗💞

[bts-aesthetics-for-the-soul]

Bias???? Selfie tag???? Its more likely than you think

Anyway i was tagged by my fav thot @skinny-butt to do this (bc she hates me) so now I have to tag other people

@swiftkookies @mhysaunburnt @rekiiypt @starry-eyed-mochi @thelittlewritinggirl @thesnakeuhobihates

[wowed-by-ace]

lmao sorry i dont know what im on sorry

No no, friend, it’s alright! There were rumors, though nothing confirmed, and it’s very easy for misinformation to be spread mostly through word of mouth - er, post. I hope this clears some things!

[wowed-by-ace]

god my first Bias was I think donghun bc like I saw some predebut vid I think and he had braces and I thought it was so cute?? Now, like that anon, I be swerving lanes and I don’t know anymore 🤷‍♀️

Damn, Donghun, snatch them hearts. And again, that is very common and we all understand the struggle. Tis the Choice Life.