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18 Realization when you are 19 yrs. old (Inspired by Neil Jed Castro post, it should be ‘18 realization when you are 18′ but well, I’m going to be 19 yrs old this coming March 22 so yey hahahaha. I’m getting old mah friends) 

1.) When you fall in love, it feels like forever but it is definitely not. Yun pala, kung hindi para sayo tatangalin siya sa buhay mo. Kaya huwag maging kampante agad, pero depende padin sa tao yun.

2.) One-sided love is never worth it. Kung ginawa mo na ang lahat, and you feel unworthy, useless at trash. Umalis na agad sa toxic relationship. Marami ang darating na deserved mo at magiging worth it ang lahat ng mabuti na ginawa mo dahil babalik din ito sayo sa huli.

3.) Don’t trust right away. Dito ako lageng nadadale, yung akala ko na pwede ko pagkatiwalaan yung tao pero darating pala yung time na lalabas ang tunay na kulay nila. Kaya beware always.

4.) Prioritise your studies. Ito ang isa sa mga pinagsisihan ko sa buhay, yung kaya ko naman maging better at mag-excel pero hindi ko ginawa. Kaya if ever na makapag-aral ako ulit, I will promise to myself na I will excell.

5.) No one really understands how you feel inside. Nahahalata nila na malungkot ka or my problema or kung ano man. Pero kapag sinabi mo na sakanila, hindi pala talaga nila ikaw naiintindihan. I think they just like the ‘juicy stories’. *chismoso/chismosa ganern* 

6.) No one understands you until it happened to them. Ika nga magaling mag-advice kasi hindi naman sa kanila nangyari at hindi ka nila maintindihan pero once na nangyari na sa kanila. Doon palang nila malalaman at maiintindihan. Ganyan tayong mga tao, hangga’t wala tayo sa sitwasyon nung kapwa natin hindi natin sila mauunawaan. 

7.) The world is cruel. The world is full of judgmental people. They will act in front of you like a good sheep, but behind those mask is a evil wolf hiding. Beware and be wise to choose people who are worthy of your trust and love. Not everyone deserves it. 

8.) Most people dwell in physical beauty not in the heart. Hindi mahalaga ang physical beauty, ang mas mahalaga yung ugali. Ang Beauty malalaos. a beautiful heart doesn’t fade away.

9.) Sometimes, we learned lessons the hard way. Yung papahirapan ka ng husto ng buhay. Yung mga problema na binibigay sayo gusto mo na sukuan pero at the end of the day. I believe that if you pray to God and belive in him, he will help you and he always give answers to our prayers. 

10.) Standards are not important. If love comes, let it be. Most of us may mga standards or dream girl/boy something. But believe me, if you feel love even though that person doesn’t have all of your standards, you will just see yourself fall in love to that person. 

11.) I  would rather be alone than be with fake people. Maraming hipokrito at mapagpanggap kaya mas mainam kung kahit onti lang kaibigan ko atleast totoo sila. 

12.) When someone leaves, there will be a someone who will come to your love that you deserve. Nasaktan ka man at iniwanan. may darating at darating sa buhay mo na deserve mo sa kabila ng mga ginawa sayo noon na hindi maganda.

13.) I think ‘Low-key relationship’ are the best.  People do not need to know all the things that are happening in your relationship. There are things that are way sweeter when kept on private. A lowkey relationship is more peaceful. There will be less intruders. When your relationship is away from the public eye, you spare yourself from people having too much expectations from the both of you. A relationship that is beyond social media. A relationship that is definitely not perfect but is real. A relationship that does not have to maintain a certain image. 

14.) Be good always. Even though life and some people knock you down, get up and be still good to them,

15.) Don’t open -up to people easily. Often, they will just going to judge you and don’t understand you. Because they had a different mind set to you. Don’t trust to that kind of people. 

16.) Love yourself. Bago ka magmahal ng iba, mahalin mo muna ang sarili mo, para bago mo mahalin yung iba, handa ka at mabibigay mo yung love mo sa kanila.

17.) Appreciate always. Dahil for sure nageeffort yung taong binibigyan ka or pinapahalagahan. Maliit na bagay man o Malaki lagi dapat I-appreciate

18.) If you felt that it makes you happy. Go, or else you will regret everything in the end. Kung sa tingin mo na yung bagay na yun nagbibigay ng kasiyahan sayo, go. (In a good way na happiness HAHAHAHA) 

19.) Other people’s opinion doesn’t matter. Maraming sasabihin ang tao, hwag mo hayaan na ma-idown ka nila. Dahil buhay mo yan at hindi dapat nila pinapakailaman yun.