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[itgirlwritingsonthewall]

Being Truly Ravished

I recently spoke with a client of mind who told me a story I hear from many ladies all the time. “He checked off all the boxes for what I am looking for in a man” and it was the best sex I’ve ever had.  Until his perfect doting gentleman behavior quickly devolved into sporatic communication and sub par efforts across the board. What happened? What is on the check-list and  is it complete? Likely, its’ not and there’s not enough space on their for flexibility. 

 We all have the tendency to recycle encouragement based on the metrics of success that got us where we are today in said area of our life.  Those same criterias DO NOT necessarily translate into another area. It’s not plug and play.  We say things like, “you’re smart, beautiful, successful, a good friend and well rounded. You will meet someone. It’s just not the right time (or some other excuse).” This list is neither comprehensive nor is it even close to being complete.  It’s like showing putting down your qualifications on your linked in profile on your dating profile sprinkled with “loves to travel, try new foods and easy-going”.  It doesn’t translate that way. This is NOT what men are looking for, well the type of man you probably want at least.

Healthy, heterosexual men are looking for so, so much more. Something  intangible that they can sense- it goes beyond a dating profile, your best physical assets and your version of “winning in life except you don’t have a man”.

My client says that he ravishes her sexually.  You deserve that and so much more. You can have a man that will ravish your intellect, your hobbies, your sleep cycle, your career and strengths and your weaknesses.  

Curious?  If you’d like to have that as your baseline love experience, then contact me- itgirlmessages@gmail.com.